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  • Ages 27-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After having this section empty for a while I finally decided it was time to disclose a tidbit about myself.
Needless to say I am not a big fan of writing self summaries. I must confess that instead of writing my profile I spent quite some time answering those "match questions" and I DO read other people’s answers quite a lot. More often than not, they tell more about the person than their self-summary itself.
I am known for being an honest person who is sometimes too direct and who speaks his mind quite often, but rarely in a way that would be considered offensive and most importantly, without being bitchy (not offense, but bitchiness sucks).
I care deeply for the people I like and I am there for whatever they need. I believe actions speak louder than words. I believe everyone deserves a second chance. Trust is the base of any relationship. Everything else related to my personality kinda derives from that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to the city two years ago from the burbs and I enjoy it a lot. At the moment doing the whole 9 to 5 (sometimes
9 to God-knows-if-I-will-ever-get-out-of-this-place) at the
Financial District and trying to live a life at the same
I try to (force myself is also a good way to put it) go to the gym
at least 2X/week, but I would rather run along the Charles with my
friends or go to a Hot Yoga class (I have yet to see someone
puking). I try to do sport events on the regular basis; Half Marathons (considering a full sometime soon), Reach The Beach, Tough Mudder... I believe being healthy is extremely important both
physically and mentally. That being said, in addition to exercising
I try to be surrounded by my friends as much as I can.
I try to visit at least one new country every year and I can’t wait
to make this number a bit higher. "Staycation" isn't for me, my
idea of a vacation involves going somewhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making others feel comfortable because I believe that's when you get the best of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smile a lot. My hair is always messy. I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: I was a LOST fanatic who is still wondering if there will be a show just as good. Suggestions are welcome. I also like Family Guy, Arrested Development, Weeds (just the show), Better Off Ted (sad it was canceled), Pushing Daisies (also canceled), South Park, Archer and a few others that I can't remember at the moment.

Books: The Alchemist, 100 years of Solitude, The Hunger Games Trilogy, The Book Thief, The Shadow of the Wind, Harry Potter (all), A Song of Ice and Fire and currently reading The Devil In The White Cityu. What next? I am open to suggestions.

Food: I eat EVERYTHING but beef.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- friends
- my bed
- coffee
- iPhone
- my kindle
- music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about everything, but what is in my head at this moment is; Why is gay community fighting so hard for equality but refuses to do things like everybody else?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. Sometimes staying at home being lazy, other times movies or game night with friends, occasionally a bar (regular bar) or restaurant. In general I prefer to be among people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately I've been asking to the Old Gods, and the New, for George R R Martin to live up to 100. yeah... I know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You have a good head on your shoulders
- You think the idea of staying home every weekend sounds as ridiculous as the idea of go clubbing/partying hard every weekend.
- You don't do drugs (yes, Marijuana is a drug) and can go out drinking and remember "most" of the night on the following day.
- You care about yourself inside and out.
- You are not a flake or a fake, and don't use the word "fabulous" as part of your everyday vocabulary.
- You are someone who happens to be gay, rather than a gay someone.
- last but not least, you should message me if you want to.