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Ashen_Raine

21 F Kirkland, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I have spent a lot of time trying to define myself so that I can put a proper representation of myself on this website and I think I may have finally done it to a more satisfactory level:

I am a 21-year-old woman who spends most of her time behaving in a manner more suited to that of a 35-year-old woman. I know what you are thinking, "Oh, all 20-somethings think they know everything. Whatever. Pass." But, please, allow me to stop you there.

I have managed to fit into 21 years what takes most people a good 45 years to experience. I have learned through the mistakes of those before me and, while I still make plenty of my own mistakes, I am grateful that I don't have to make them all. I could spend all day telling you my life story. And someday maybe I will! For now, here is what you need to know:

- I speak my mind and tell it like it is. I am always upfront about how I am feeling with those I am close to. I don't see a way to resolve problems if you can't tell someone that you have an issue with them.

- I can, admittedly, be a "bit" sassy.

- I have a generally very bubbly disposition.

- I am an artist and a gamer. I can kick your ass in a video game and then doodle a comic of me kicking your ass on said video game. (Woah. Impressive, I know.)

- I am a firm believer that there needs to be a font for sarcasm. Which I would /totally/ never use...

- I am loud and typically full of silliness and laughter. It isn't usually hard to find me in a room for this reason, among others.

- I care deeply for those closest to me. I spent a little time as a caregiver and I have always taken care of friends and family when they needed me.

Here is what I am looking for:

I am looking for someone to date. I don't like sleeping around, it is ultimately very disappointing. I prefer to just sleep with one person at a time. It seems to work better for me. And I want to form a bond over time with someone.

I don't want to be someone's girlfriend after one date. Whatever happened to the whole "courtship" phase of a relationship? The fun, flirty, playful phase of a relationship where you go out and have fun and just test the waters; get to know each other and decide if you want to be in a relationship? Because THAT'S what I want.

If that sounds like something you want, then, please, go ahead and send me a message. I promise I don't bite... Unless you're in to that. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
I spend 40+ hours out of my week working in a highly stressful job in an office with some of the most awesome women I have ever met. When I am not at work, I like to spent time with my friends and family doing activities ranging from getting drunk with a group of friends, to orchestrating glow in the dark easter egg hunts for my insanly large number of siblings.

I am also actively working on getting healthy and losing weight. I want to keep some curves, but be more comfortable in my own skin.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at making myself seem way more complicated than I am. I'm really a very simple creature living in a chaotic world.

I'm not hard to please and I do my best to make those around me happy, so I expect the people I keep in my life to try and do the same when they are capable without it being a detriment to themselves.

I'm also talented at drawing and would like to eventually be able to incorporate my art into my career.

(I'm also pretty good at gaming. I'll give ya a run for your money while playing Injustice and I love playful competition when I play table top games.)
The first things people usually notice about me
Based on the messages I get on here, apparently, it is my boobs. (Shocker!) If you message me and all you have to say is "nice tits" or something to the effect of "let's have sex", please just save it. That's not going to get you anything but blocked.

Yes, I have a large chest. Yes, it is fun to flaunt them. Yes, they draw attention. But just commenting on them is no way to get me to go out with you, let alone get you into my pants. So just give it a rest. Use some tact. I like a man who can compliment a girl without coming across as a total sleeze.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alright, I have too many favorites to write them all... And this list is still probably too long. But here are some of my favorites:

Books:
Harry Potter (Series) - J.K. Rowling
Still Life with Woodpecker - Tom Robbins
Vampire Chronicles (Series) - Anne Rice
Scott Pilgrim (Series)
Thirst (Series) - Christopher Pike
Illusions - Richard Bach
Ride the Wind - Lucia St. Claire Robson
Ender's Game (Series) - Orson Scott Card
The Hunger Games (Series) - Suzzane Collins

Movies:
Harry Potter (Series)
Lord of the Rings (Series)
Serenity
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
The Princess Bride
Stardust
Hot-Tub Time-Machine
Get Him to the Greek
Easy A
Superbad
Shaun of the Dead
Cabin in the Woods
At World's End
This is the End
Hot Fuzz

TV Shows:
Dr. Who
Firefly
30 Rock
Legend of the Seeker
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
American Horror Story
Game of Thrones
True Blood
2 Broke Girls
Venture Bros.
The Crazy Ones
Rachel Maddow (and a lot of other MSNBC news shows - I think it is important to keep up on what is going on in the world.)
Daily Show & Colbert Report

Music:
An interesting collaboration of "indy" and "pop" music. Including, but not limited to: Death Cab for Cutie, Macklemore, Walk off the Earth, fun., (Some of) Lady Gaga, Lily Allen... Basically, I like all kinds of music. There isn't a lot of music that I don't enjoy.

Games:
-Video:
--Final Fantasy - X, X-2
--Assassin's Creed 1, 2, Brotherhood, Revelations and 3
--Skyrim
--KoA: Reckoning <-- Best game ever (right now)
--Pokemon (Occasionally my Nintendo hand-held consoles need some love, too.)
--Portal 1 & 2
--Kingdom Hearts (Series)
--Fable (Series)
--The Witcher 2
--Injustice: Gods Among Us

-Board/Card/Dice:
--Munchkin (And pretty much any other Steve Jackson game)
--Dragon Dice
--Dominion
--Apples to Apples
--Cards Against Humanity (Basically crude, adult-themed Apples to Apples... Hands down, this is one of the best and most hilarious party games EVER!)
--D&D
--Dixit
--Scrabble, Monopoly, and other "classic" board games

Food:
I especially love "ethnic" foods, (Examples: Indian food, Greek/Middle Eastern food, sushi, Veitnamese food and Thai food).

I'm really not picky about what kind of food I eat. However, I am currently on an elimination diet, which means I can't eat anything interesting for the next couple months, because I have to have a diet that excludes all major food allergens. For the sake of health and science!
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

-Pencils/Paper/something to create art with: I find art therapeutic, it helps me deal with life. Plus, I want to make a career out of it, so that makes it necessary, too. :P

-My friends and family: I'd be utterly lost without them.

-Books: I absolutely love to read. There is little I love more than a well-loved, worn, used book. <3

-Music: I LOVE listening to music and singing. And while I might not be a very talented singer, that doesn't stop me from blasting the music in my car and singing (poorly) at the top of my lungs!

-My car: Okay, I CAN live without this one, as I recently had to prove due to a lack of my car. But I greatly prefer to have access to my car. Which I do, again! Yay!

-Internet access: I feel the need to stay connected to the world via a technological device with internet access most of the time. Occasionally I'll disconnect from everything for a day. But it's a pretty rare occurrence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
These days, I spend a lot of time thinking up good ideas for drawings and paintings. I find inspiration everywhere. Or about how "I wish I had a camera because that would be a great shot!"

Or work. Since starting my new job, I do spend a lot of the week thinking about work. Haha.

But my inner thoughts also sometimes devolve into: "Oh! Shiney! Sparkles! Whee!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something crafty (drawing, painting, writing, etc.), playing video games or going out and doing something with friends. Or sleeping after a particularly long work day.

But, honestly, what is a "typical" Friday night, anyway?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In the words of the wonderful River Song:

"Spoilers."
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are looking for a relationship with a fun girl who has a brain and isn't afraid to use it.