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AshleyAlexa

38 / F / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

Her Details

Last Online
Jan 10
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a dream-girl, tough to sum up any other way.

Preppy, and sexy, sophisticated, somewhat down-to-Earth, a multi-facetted lady, sparkling and polished. A bit of a chameleon, adapting to my interests and surroundings: a little reserved at times; intellectually curious; spontaneously affectionate.

California is home, born and raised. Working within the Design Industry keeps me busy. Relish days I am able to get outside and do things: sit at bistros, travel, hike, attend Jazz nights at the LACMA, explore the city, enjoy a day by the ocean, visit Silverlake Dog Park with my Boston Terrier.

Often described as "sweet" and "thoughtful" (though I also hear luminous and enchanting, which is humorous to me). I enjoy cultivating new interests and meeting people; keep well-informed and have a broad perspective. I am a true product of my environment, able to effortlessly navigate through complex social situations, share a quiet day at home, or hike/travel to new places.

Here to connect with people outside my usual social circle, who have similar interests. I'm best with a confident, affectionate man, who will take the lead, and feels I would complete his active lifestyle. I was married for twelve years - I'm very experienced and tough to catch.

Life has presented me with many extraordinary experiences for which I am thankful for.

I love animals, worked for a vet hospital - quite some time ago. After several years of waiting, I adopted a rescued Boston Terrier puppy in September.

I'm wired to please - multi-talented, intuitively anticipate needs and put best face forward for the well-being of those around me.
What I’m doing with my life
Working within the design industry, close network of friends, volunteer when time allows
I’m really good at
Passionate about Aesthetics and mastering them; good at most anything that requires dexterity, taste and imagination.
The first things people usually notice about me
How "young" I look, people assume I am ten years younger - not as much of a blessing as you'd think, I want to have relationships with people my own age who live life fully, with balance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A few favorite things: Gravity's Rainbow, Ayn Rand, Alfred Tarski, Shakespeare, Carl Jung, Arthur Schopenhauer; Jazz/Standards, EBM, Indie, Post Punk, Classical; Terry Gilliam, Ridley Scott, Stanley Kubrick; Anderson Cooper, The Colbert Report, anything by Aaron Sorkin; French cuisine, roast quail, good wine with dinner, champagne with linden-flower, espresso at breakfast; growing heirloom roses and sage; miss living near the ocean - the fog in winter, and laughing when the tide catches me; hiking in the mountains and the desert during Spring or Autumn; watching meteor showers from a hot-spring, celebrating holidays.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
*Frequent Affection
*Puppies
*Technology: creating with, and accessing: music, films, and photos)
*Art/Aesthetics
*Southern California (specifically: Encinitas/Solana Beach, and all the other wonderful beach towns from Summerland to LaJolla)

*The sixth thing: will leave open to possibility
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If you read my profile, there is little I don't think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Very busy or asleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think it would be wonderful to be a step-mom one day.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You think we have a lot in common