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AshleyRVA

31 / F / Straight / Single

Charlotte, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 2:22am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I just moved to Charlotte a few months ago and so far I love it! I'm enjoying the different parts of town and their different personalities. NoDa is a hippie. Plaza Midwood is a casual and trendy. Uptown is classy and sophisticated. It's nice to be able to entertain those parts of my personality in different parts of town. I grew up in the country - we're talkin cows and trees and farms and good ol boys. But enjoy living in the city with all the variety of things to do and different kinds of people. There is definitely a part of me that still loves the country and likes to be outside in the middle of nowhere. For general life activities, I like to spend time with good people - going to concerts, enjoying quality food, entertaining, taking road trips or just talking about nothing for hours. It's all about the company, right?

So, what am I looking for you ask? I'm attracted to guys who are grown ups but haven't lost their sense of play. If you're interested in music, movies, long rambling conversations, dance offs, being outside, playing tag in shopping malls, people watching, creating your own fun, sarcasm...we should talk. At this point in life, I'm looking for a solid relationship with someone who is: up for whatever, enjoys life & the little things, is comfortable in their own skin, craves new adventures, has their chit together, passionate about music, and likes to laugh (& make me laugh!). It would also help if you're not super conservative or consider Nickelback one of your favorite bands.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting the most out of it and trying to do it right.
I’m really good at
Cooking. Banter. Entertaining. Finding new music. Creating mischief. My job. Being silly.
The first things people usually notice about me
My freckles. My laugh. My twisted sense of humor. And my general bluntness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sometimes - David Sedaris, Tina Fey, etc. Poetry and good recommendations from friends.

Movies: All the time. American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind, Amelie, Hugo, Big Lebowski, Empire Records, Son of Rambow, Conversations with other Women, Fight Club, All the Real Girls, Harold and Maude, Annie Hall and Bridesmaids.

Music: All the time.
In general: Johnny Cash, The Runaways, The Cure, Flaming Lips, Violent Femmes, the Pixies, Calexico, Andrew Bird, Patti Smith, Arcade Fire, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Phoenix, Radiohead, Otis Redding, The Shins
Lately: Alabama Shakes, Broken Bells, Noah & the Whale, The Black Keys, Birds & Arrows, Bon Iver, The Dodos

Food: Everyday. All kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Google, Traveling, Cheese, Music, Good Conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next big adventure, next concert, next trip.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing really strikes me as "private". But I do like old fashioned romance (aside from the online dating part haha). Phone calls are better than texts. And I like to be treated like a lady :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to. And if you don't ever want to hold my purse while I'm in the fitting room at the mall. This lady shops alone.