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32 Eindhoven, Netherlands Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Straight, Sapiosexual
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update Oct/Nov2015:
Going to be in China for a bit.
Be back later... maybe.
Mid Nov 2015:
Back for a bit, but ... wtf happened to the site and why?

I write in English, because, well, a lot of travellers around that might be fun to have a drink with. I am, however Dutch by nature.
I think we could be great friends (++?) if you like any of these (one or two will do, I'm not addicted to any, not much at least):
Weird thoughts spoken aloud; doing stuff because you feel like it; technology and/or science; LEGO (and/or the First organisation); Games (table-top and/or computer); light or moderate, sarcasm; thoughts that may sometimes be a few steps ahead of words; being impulsive, sometimes even if there's not that much time; buying something, just because it made you think of someone; brains that have no "off" setting; helping people because it feels good; Motorcycles; DIY (or people who like to); Electronics (become a good enough friend and you'll be allowed in my lab ... with buttons and that).

And many, many more.

My one sister in law told me I should say I make apple pie, brownies and cookies some times. I do. Does that help? The other told me I have a nice voice to listen to (while she was dozing off, though). A close friend told me I have interesting eyes. (??)

Any other opinion about me, that's up to you to figure out, because I'm not presumptuous enough to tell you what you'll think of me. Or not stupid enough to give away all my damning flaws. ;-)

This website suddenly wants you to pay for everything, including messaging someone who may have set a limiting parameter you only just don't match.**
To prove I'm not scared of hearing from you if you managed to find me, I'm happy for any of you to attempt some cyber stalking:

My twitter:
My EE-Stack profile (for more techy people?):

Steam name Merdosh.


**It's also why I set my "looking for" to 20-40. Although I should not forget that finding a good friend is often as valuable as anything else, and what does age matter if you like someone, really?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I cycle. Often and far, but irregularly.
I also sometimes ride off on my motorcycle going nowhere in particular, to get away from stuff.
Other than that, does that really matter? Is it that important? I'm decently happy, I have a home, I can pay for dinner. If you need more, get me to like you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think:
1. Thinking/puzzling.
2. Solving/helping.
3. Mechanics.
4. Fine motor-skills (Finger-spitzen Gefühl usw).
5. Boolean thinking/machine thinking.
6. Driving a motorcycle.
This was the one where you needed six right?

By the way: They are in arbitrary order, it's hard enough to think them up, let alone sort them by level of skilfulness.
P.S.: 7. Subverting OKC questions for my own dark enjoyment... Sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know.
I think maybe that I'm witty, but a bit weird? I keep trying to make it my brownies, but people around me keep eating them before I manage to get out the fishing rod.
I'm told I can be intimidating, which sucks, because I can be shy about first contact from time to time and don't quickly think less of people with different skills or interests if they can hold a conversation (I'm only half a Sheldon).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Generally in my life I try what intrigues me and I try to remember what I enjoyed. Although with some subjects it's a little daunting.

I cook. I do it well. But I like many kinds of food in all kinds of situations. Especially if it's lovingly cooked, you'll be hard pressed to make me something I won't eat.
After a while in Lao I can confirm: There's stuff I find slightly more difficult to eat. Luckily even there they're only a very tiny part of a meal of loads that I will.

Books: Good stories, with above average plot lines. Preferably something Sci-Fi/Fantasy-ish. But I greatly Enjoy Kathy Reichs' Tempe Brennan stories and such as well.
(Yes, she wrote the books first...)
Comedic: Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency (D. Adams) / The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul (D. Adams).
Crime/Thriller: Cross Bones (K. Reichs) / Bleed for Me (M. Robotham)
SF/Fantasy: Ian Irvine's Tales of the Three Worlds. The Gone Away World by Nick Harkaway (especially good, if you ask me).

TV: Have I got News for You, QI, X-Files, Better off Ted, House, Big Fat Quiz of the Year, The IT-Crowd, Chicago Fire, ST-TNG (Deal with it! I'm awesome, but also a nerd), Body of Proof, Would I lie to You, Brain Games, 8 out of 10 cats (and Does Countdown is even better!), American Dad (usually), Family Guy (often), Futurama (See ST-TNG), Californication, Dead Like Me, The Finder, Fargo, Franklin and Bash, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, Late Late with Craig Ferguson, Modern Family, The Daily Show, New Girl, Orange is the New Black, Firefly (again, see ST-TNG).
Yes it's a lot, but I often work at home and need some background stuff on to keep it up. (And also quite a few have ended...)

Oh And Stand up shows by people like Aisling Bea, Dara Ó Briain, Sean Lock and Jon Richardson. And I suspect Katherine Ryan, but I have only seen a small bit of Apollo from her.

Also, in the case of music: Anything that isn't easily replicated by slamming one's head repeatedly into a cheap late-90's keyboard. Examples? Postmoden Jukebox (YouTube), Ingrid Michaelson (YouTube), Maria Mena, Regina Spektor, Enya, Anouk, Elton John, Ilse DeLange, Yello (Yello? Yes! Yello!) and most others that fit that pattern.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There's a lot I really, really prefer to not do without.

But with just water and basic foods that nourish I'll make it anywhere eventually.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All. None.

It includes thoughts like (for your own sanity, I advise you skip this list, but for full and open honesty, I'll keep it for now):

- Am I changed a lot in the last year? Should I let people know?
- Where can I best hide my thoughts, once they have foolishly left the front of my face?
- Who keeps stealing my fresh air when I'm not home?
- For people looking 'just for friends' in the range of 20 to 29, would it be acceptable if I promise to never act any older than 20?
- What can I do to further improve the coffees that I make?
- If you colour everywhere outside the lines, are you not just colouring inside the lines again?
- Would my walls look better in Crayola colours?
- Can you be accused of having lost your mind if you know where you left it, but just refuse to use it?
- How many cordless drills would I need to turn my motorcycle into a zero-bike?
- How many coffee beans can one guy ever need in his life and why do I have twice that amount? ((Update: I recently found the answer: They keep making more flavours to blend with and I can't finish bags quick enough))
- Fact!: Gouda Cheese is coloured using refined mango juice.
- Fact!: Richard Dean Anderson has an irrational fear of pocket knifes.
- Fact!: Stephen Root is allergic to post-its!
- Fact!: Every pencil wanted to grow up to be a crayon!
- Fact!: Milk is bleached cheese suspended in water!
- Fact!: Clocks used to run the other way BC, but Jesus didn't like that, because years should count up!
- Fact!: Good hugs taste of milk chocolate!
(Having seen some Dwight Schrute will help appreciate those facts more)
- Should I be less honest? Is honesty overrated?
- Does anybody care that "You don't know what you've got, until it's gone" is a temporal inaccuracy?
- Should I just become a full time bartender?
- How long are you allowed to stare at someone much younger?
- Should I stop trimming my facial hair? Should I shave it all off again?
- Why do some people attach so much value to having or not having hair on a face. It's so easy to change (for -most- men).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
very disappointed about finally having established "a typical Friday night".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like sharing too much. Sharing my thoughts sometimes sounds condescending or preachy, even though I most usually just mean to help. I'm working on it. Or trying to at least.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I don't see why I should tell you when to send a message. Just do it, or just don't, you pick. Let me know which you choose.

I'd really like it, though, if you sent a message (or find me on twitter, instagram, steam, stack) when you understand that none of what I typed matters to have a good afternoon with someone. I think that awareness is dying out.