I'm not your average OkCupid guy, I think at least. I message only when intrigued, but I find it hard to make sufficient of an impression in single-direction communication, which a first message is an excellent example of.
I have recently turned an awesome conversation into dating a lady who's already in an open relationship. Confusing, because I never knew I would be able to handle that. But I'm giving it a go and so far so good.
However, she's "far" away and busy, and I have more friendliness and hugs to give than she's willing to take, so I could do with a few more friends.
I'm open to whatever happens, but I'm not the jump 'em and leave 'em kind. So I'm looking for friends, like always really, and if it lasts, who knows what a few months or years will bring, all cards on all tables, of course.
I find people intriguing. Some can annoy me, but even that can be in a good way. Let's just see if we can hate each other honestly :-).
My brain never stops. I envy those who can say "oh, I guess I wasn't thinking" and mean it. If you can teach me, you get bonus points.
But I'm happy to hang out with people who sometimes turn theirs off. One of my closest friends actually is openly stupid regularly ;) and I know he's okay with me saying that.
If you want to "stalk" me, ask me my twitter name.
Oh, and, the only thing I expect from messages is a nice conversation about ... anything.
Because even if anything follows, regardless of its nature, it'll always start with a conversation. And it might end there, but that's fine with me.
(I'll try and not use stupid innuendo the first three messages)
One last thing: my smooth puffy face is now less puffy and lightly hairy. All lady friends say they like it and now I'm scared to shave it off. But I'm not really in the mood for updating my pictures right now. Too busy having fun with stuff. ^.^ Or put differently: I'm afraid my friends are lying to me and it looks horrible. It's hard to accustom to change, I guess.