I'm not your average OkCupid guy, I think at least. I message only when intrigued, but I find it hard to make sufficient of an impression in single-direction communication, which a first message is an excellent example of.
So this happened... Found someone I like here who let me grow on her a little, she's happily open-relationshippy and thinks I should have more people to go out with as well. (Something about deserving it? I'm not sure I do, but she's adamant ^.^ - maybe my recent facial hair hides my stupid better?)
So, I'm still here for all kinds of contacts. No real expectations, because I appreciate good company for conversations, making dinner, outings, hugs and every stop up to ("kinky" -this has become such a stupid word) outings of sexual joy. But it's all new and confusing, so, let's have coffee to start with.
My brain never stops. I envy those who can say "oh, I guess I wasn't thinking" and mean it. If you can teach me, you get bonus points.
If you want to "stalk" me, ask me my twitter name.
Oh, and, the only thing I expect from messages is a nice conversation about ... anything.
Because even if anything follows, regardless of its nature, it'll always start with a conversation. And it might end there, but that's fine with me.
(I'll try and not use stupid innuendo the first thee messages)