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Aspire4TheBetter

30 Syracuse, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 8
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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The few things I want to say before anything else.. and this is just the ideal part.. not necessarily the right now part.. I do realize that patience is important.. and while I can jump into things quickly.. I am trying to take my time and do things right this time.

It would be nice to meet someone who also can contribute more to the relationship than simply being there. That's kinda what my whole username and everything signifies. I've had mediocre a few times over. I want better. Deserve better.

I always hear girls say things like.. "Where are all the good, decent guys?" Uhhh.. Hello? Right here.. lol. The problem is.. I haven't the best luck choosing partners. The last 2 girls that came on to me recently.. I had to seriously evaluate the whole situation and in the end I said to myself both times.. in fact I PROMISED myself.. I am not getting back into a hellish relationship again that can have drastic consequences. I am a decent stable person who has a lot to offer.. why settle for less?
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, and trying to always make the best of things. I just got a great new IT Job working for one of the largest companies in the World doing Internet/Telecom Tech Support. Was thrilled about that. I spent most of my life since I was a teenager busting my ass getting to where I am now.. and I am content that it all paid off.

I do love traveling/vacations.. been to Cancun twice, Maui once, Vegas, Disneyworld.. lotsa fun stuff. I go to Water Safari/the Adirondacks every year, as well as Fairhaven.. I love simple things like just going swimming in lake Ontario.

I always try to live in the moment.. but aspire to improve the quality of life.

Right now I am all about the future. It's all I've been able to think about lately. I want to sell my house, get out of Syracuse, move to the suburbs and buy a nicer home in a quiet neighborhood. I aspire to live the American dream.. and I'm on my way.

..and as far as smoking goes.. been a smoker for a while but just bought one of those E-Cig things.. I should be quitting and done with tobacco soon.
I’m really good at
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Electronics, home theater, computers, anything with buttons. People.. negotiating. sales/profit/closing the deal, vacations, judging people prematurely, surviving. But most importantly, I am great at not losing perspective.

In relationships I have the ability to make someone feel loved and safe, secure. I don't really go out and do all the assh*le things that some guys do. I'm really into family stuff and I am a very loyal, and faithful person.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm sharp as a tack. I am certainly not saying that I'm a genius or anything like that.. but I do posses above average intelligence. I am really polite, easy going, have great observational skills and can be very patient. I am always living in "The Now".. I don't dwell on the past although sometimes I am pretty sentimental about some things. I am fun to be around. Most people comment on my ability to raise kids on my own, and say that I am strong for being so independent. I am not usually big into large crowds or hanging with the guys.. and that doesn't mean that I can't or don't like to.. it just means that I usually choose to spend time at home when given the opportunity. I do have a couple of close friends.. but mainly because they are great people whom I know that I can trust with anything.. even my life. =)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV Shows- Supernatural, The Bates Motel (I love this), The Walking Dead, Scandal, Tyrant, Game of Thrones, American Horror Story (Love this too), Breaking Bad..Criminal Minds, Vampire Diaries, True Blood, Big Bang Theory, The Following, Once Upon a Time, Southpark, Heroes, Smallville, Paranormal State, The Dead Files, Ghost Hunters, I love Supernatural/Scifi.. but I'll just chill and watch a comedy or drama too. I like all kinds of different things.

Movies- Action, Drama, Horror, Scifi, Thriller, Romance, Comedy, Comic Book/Superhero Movies, all types of movies really... but particularly.. Purple Rain, Lost Highway, This Is the End, Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit, Superbad, Harry Potter, Twilight, American History X, Kick Ass, Scott Pilgrim VS the World, Go, 8 mile, Dogma, Jay and Silent Bob/and all the Kevin Smith Movies, Fightclub, She's Out of My League, Fright Night, The Lost Boys, Daybreakers . etc. Love movies directed by Wes Anderson, Francis Ford Coppola, Martin Scorsese, and the Coen Brothers.

Favorite Actors/Actresses In No Particular Order- Michael Cera, Edward Norton, Christopher Mintz-Plasse, Christopher Walken, Christina Ricci, Mila Kunis, Jason Schwartzman, Bill Murray, Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Cruise, Jonah Hill, Seth Rogan, and Jay Baruchel.

Music- Prince, Falloutboy, Hollywood Undead, 30 Seconds to Mars, Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson, Saosin, 12 Rounds, Jane Jensen, The Used, Monster Magnet, too many to mention really. I like everything from rock to rap to funk to alternative and some R&B. Not into Country or Classical tho.

Food- I'm not a great cook. But I hope I meet someone who is, lol.
The six things I could never do without
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1. My Family
2. My Job
3. My Home Theater System/TV/Stereo
4. My Samsung Galaxy S4
5. My Nikon DSLR
6. Iced Coffee.. Make my own usually.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Money. What's for dinner. Vacations. My camera & wanting to use it. If I'm ever actually going to meet someone decent. What's on TV. What is there to do. Life, the Universe, and Everything.. Etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, watching a Movie... going out to eat.. or shopping, whatever.. I don't have a Friday routine. I used to have busy weekends.. friends.. girls.. fun.. all the time.. but I gave most of that up. I am so sick of that type of lifestyle. I want something different.

I am completely content just about anywhere and doing anything as long as there aren't any annoying people around. I am not really that hard to please. I can be in a dimly lit room with one person and have decent conversation or watch a movie at night, something along those lines.. and that usually is just fine.. in fact sometimes it can be amazing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My morals & values make it difficult for me to meet someone in this day and age.. I'm not uptight.. but for some reason trying to find someone to be in a relationship whom I can trust has proved to be quite challenging. I just want to meet someone decent..nice.. trustworthy.. Not someone who always wants to party/get high all the time. I already bought a girl a ring once.. that didn't go so well in the end. I need someone who I can trust. Trust to me is everything.
You should message me if
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...if any of this sounds good..

I'm not into head games, random hookups, crack whores, or such nonsensical things.

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