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AstralDelusion

23 / F / Straight / Single

Christchurch, New Zealand

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:44am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a lot of things. I'm who I am, not what others think or want me to be. I'm a bit of a stressbunny, but make me laugh and it goes away. I'm a caring person and like taking care of people and being taking care of in return. I'm always up for something new and adventurous, I love trying new things. I'm a utter hopeless romantic, and a physical person (I love hugs, kisses, cuddling and, of course, sex).

My emotions are important to me; although it can mean overreaction in some cases, I don't hide them. All the silly romantic things I do, I mean them. I often need a bit of reassurance about some things (everyday insecurities about body/face/worth etc, I won't lie about not having them); I don't need anything major, just a few words. Small things like that mean the world to me: a brief text, a small gesture. Everything that is given to me: support, care, kindness, love; I love giving it in return.

I'm very into musical theatre, it's one of the things in life that gives me the most joy. I am a geek, I'm very into sci-fi and fantasy, and I game casually. Give me a chance and I'll talk your ear off about Star Wars or Lord of the Rings, easy.

My family are very important to me; I have a close bond with all of them.

I am kind, fun, and geeky
What I’m doing with my life
Force knows. I'm currently job-searching, which is painful and boring, and spend most of my free time hanging out with my mates, surfing the net, or writing.
I’m really good at
Looking after people, and performing, so I've been told. Good at singing and acting, not too shabby dancing - I can do choreography when it's taught to me, but unfortunately I've never had proper lessons for any one style. It's on my to do list. I'm not too shabby a writer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure. Some people say it's my smile, other times I'll be loud one laughing at something insane or defending my opinion about something insane. Or I'm the one wearing the corset.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Lord of the Rings, the Harry Potter series, Tales of the Otori, Discworld, Star Wars novels...fantasy, sci-fi. I also like graphic novels, such as ElfQuest, Transmetropolitan and Sin City (Warren Ellis is THE MAN), and Bear. Anything by Neil Gaiman or Stephen King. I'm always on the lookout for new things to read.

Movies: Almost anything and everything. LOTR and Star Wars (yes, all six) deserve a special mention, but otherwise I like everything well-made and entertaining. Most romantic comedies can bite my arse, they're terrible unless they have heart (Love Actually, for example). Anything directed by Tarantino and Burton is good. I'm always up for enjoying somethings childish (I like happy endings), and musicals, animated comedy and comic book movies.

TV: Doctor Who, Torchwood. Cartoons - Family Guy, American Dad, Futurama (better than The Simpsons, but they're good too), South Park. Firefly (bring it back!). Anime is good too, I'll admit my secret shame is Yu-Gi-Oh, 'cause I love ancient Egyptian stuff (that's my reason and I'm sticking to it). Downton Abbey just because. I enjoy CSI and those types of shows, too.

Music: I have an eclectic taste. Orchestral soundtracks (as in the score of a film), old rock, new rock, musicals, trance/dance; it's all good (aside from rap and hiphop).

Food: I have a weakness for things like feta cheese, mayonaise, cream cheese, sundried tomatos, fresh bread, salads - good, simple, tasty food. Most things are amazing, and I'll be keen to try (almost) anything once. I am a big fan of Mediterranean food and of Tepanyaki.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, music, fun, love, colour.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The mysteries of the universe. How amazing the mind is, to be able to interpret symbols into words and attach meanings, to comprehend ideas like colour and emotion, and how all these amazing things are taken for granted by almost all of the population. (Man that sounds pretentious)

And, as a warning - also the things that bother me. When something goes wrong in my life, or someone I know's been an utter dick to me, I find it really hard to get it out of my head. It can drive me a bit mental, but I'm learning to deal with it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully I'm at a party with mates, being a maniac on the dance floor. Either that or I'm on teh Interwebs and chatting with mates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a bit kinky and damn proud of it. I love sensation play, wear corsets to parties as a matter of habit, and love a bit of roleplay. Nothing too extreme, no edge or blood play of things like that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
(Apologies, I'm not interested in anything casual or strings-free.)

You're not afraid to take a chance. Although, be warned - I'm still really shy with this whole Internet dating thing, so if I don't reply it's nothing personal!

I'm looking for someone who is a hopeless romantic like me, who is sweet and geeky, passionate, and would truly enjoy and appreciate the small things in life. Someone who is loving and supportive, not afraid to try new things or meet new people (including my family). Someone who is a physical person, both in and out of the bedroom (and maybe a bit kinky). Someone who cares for and about me and that I can care for and about in return. Someone who likes a laugh and sees the funny side to situations, who always has fun, is always up for a cuddle and has an open heart and mind who will willingly let me in, and who won't run at the first sign of trouble.

As stupid as it sounds; someone to sweep me off my feet and make me happy.