Well hello! To begin, Like most people I see here, I am a bit insecure in writing about myself. With that mind...I'm actually pretty freakin awesome! :)

I am a good looking man with a great demeanor and decent charisma. I was raised by non abusive non fundamentalist parents who gave me a lot of freedom but knew how not to spoil me and I love them dearly. I am a nerd. I am an accomplished musician. I've directed a short film. I like movies a LOT! I try to make INFORMED opinions as a habit. I love to talk and when I am engaged in conversation I much prefer going right to the heart of the matter. I think our Political system is shockingly synonymous with Professional TV wrestling.

I have to laugh everyday. It's the law!

I am completely comfortable in my skin with my manhood and sexuality. I am not offended or uncomfortable in any part of the masculine to feminine ratio, and homophobia and sexism are simply stupid.

I am a sexual libertine. That doesn't mean that I don't have boundaries, morals, and ethics. I am adventurous and have a far more free perspective than current society would want me to have. I'm very passionate.

I believe a great relationship is founded on similarities but maintains through the diligent respect and celebration of differences, after all true love is unconditional, is it not? I'll say it is as long as all of us are continually enriched by the time together. Damnitt! It IS conditional!!! Ohh touche Cupid!!!!! You may have won this battle but I'll get you next time Gadget!!!!!................NEXT TIME!!

NEW UPDATE: I have really established myself in Austin and now I am mixing it up! My focus is to really develop the lifestyle that I want and I'm still just at the beginning. Now that I have settled in I am really looking forward to meeting more people, making friends and having a great time.

I'm at an awesome time in life. I made it through my Twenties and I've grown up. (well at least I'm great at pretending to be) I have gotten the experience I need to know who I am and where I am going. I am working on getting my degree in Nursing.

Hablo un poquito español. I'm getting better!! I will be fluent. I'm making all the right decisions for myself and I am in control of my vices and virtues. I'm going to write some more music and work on some more film. Maybe get involved with a professional film at some point. Maybe not. Maybe sell a song or two, maybe not. Maybe play out in a live setting. Maybe not. As long as I'm having fun, it doesn't matter. So that's it. I'm living my twenties in my thirties, without the naivety of my twenties. Sweet. :)

...listening. I actually enjoy and am interested in what you have to say. Even if the topic itself is trivial, your point of view is not. I'm great at first impressions. I can make friends with almost anyone. I can make you laugh. I excel at details and subtleties. I'd make a great detective, but my voyeurism only goes so far. *wink*. I am great at preserving trust and secrets. I'm great at healing and making people feel comfortable,

I have nice eyes. I look intimidating until I speak. I am easy going and intelligent. I'm wearing clothes.....how do you really answer this?!!!

Currently Reading A Storm of Swords.

Either classics or stylistic books. Kinda sporadic and eclectic on that. Love William Blake, Douglas Adams, Poe (not in a goth way), Tolkein, Sur Arthur Conan Doyle, Patrick O'Brien, Tomas Harris, George R.R. Martin Hunter S Thompson Jonathan Kellerman Oscar Wilde it's kinda random.

Movies are a Pandoras Box that we should not open here......beware...... But I will say that Lord of the rings is at the top and The Big Lebowski is in the top 10.

UPDATED: Ok, fine you asked for it. We'll start with some directors because that will save space. The bottom line is that if you've seen it, there's a good chance I have too. David Lynch Pedro Almodovar Peter Jackson Dario Argento Jean Pierre Jeunet Jean Jacques Annaud Kathryn Bigalow David Fincher The Coen Brothers Stanley Kuberick Gregg Araki Quentin Tarantino Robert Rodriguez Christopher Nolan ......ya get the idea. Other notable standout films are Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind Alexander Nightwatch The Talented Mr. Ripley and Breakin 2 Electric Boogaloo. Ok, that last one was a joke......sort of.

Music. Ok, I'm a total prog rock 80's boy with a dash of New Wave. But actually, having been a musician I enjoy quality in every genre, but sadly it's very hard for me to like country.........and polka......

UPDATED everything I said about music is only based on what I've been listening to lately. I'm starting to move back into electronica too. I'm also getting pretty heavy into some Salsa and Latin Jazz.

Kinda diggin on some blues these days.

1. Sexual expression.
2. Goals.
3. Truth. (The whole relative truth thing can only go so far). Ya know, truth, like....this is a planet.....the sun is a star.... stuff like that. People seem to loose grip with the basics

4. Laughter. (Because I'm a recovering emo goth post brandon lee crow child, I totally have battled depression through my twenties. Laughter keeps that beast at bay, and I've been doing relatively great with it in recent years.) Therapy also rocked my house and to anybody who views that as a Red flag, oh well.

5. Imagination.....(*sings* If you want to view paradise....simply look around and view it....anything you want to...do it...wanna change the world....there's nothing to it...)

6. Companionship. I love people.

what movies are going to be coming out, How much I love Twin Peaks and Special Agent Dale Cooper. Working on my next Film project or learning Spanish.

If the path to self enlightenment is a process brought on by experience and applied volition over my surroundings by breaking complexities down to the most simple denominator while keeping a scientific and skeptical perspective.

Looking for something fun to do with Friends and/or Dates. Let's make plans!!! :)

heheheheheheeee!!! Teee Heee!!!
Oh how naughty!!! *Blush*
I am willing to admit a great many things, and kinda get turned on by having to answer.
Why don't you ask me and find out? You Cheeky Monkey!!!

...you would like to have fun and meet me cuz I'm rad!! I am ultimately looking for a relationship with a woman who is sex positive and will at least consider open relationships or polyamory. At the very least you don't see relationships like these as bad things and you're interested in talking about it. To be clear, This is not that I have a need to be with multiple people as much as I would like to be able to share an experience with someone I love and have her share with me, either together OR separately.

Emotionally, I am looking for a committed relationship with someone that I can build a life with, travel with, and share in misadventures as we get older and goofier. . I am not a pig or a womanizer and it's not about a numbers game. I'm not looking for a harem. I want love and commitment. I kinda pine for it often. ;)

I feel insecurity and jealousy because these are conditioned responses, but I am happy to take responsibility for them and support my partner in that as well.

This is not a forced lifestyle, months or years could be just the two of us or never at all. That doesn't matter. What matters to me is love, understanding, support and encouragement. So message me if you feel like that is something that you may be interested in for yourself and who knows ;)

Message me if you like movies enough to go see bad ones in the Theatre with me.

Message me you love to just go places and talk together. If you love to dance and run around Austin.

Message me if you like making new friends and if you think I would like to meet your friends.

Definitely message me if you are in the burner or flipside community. Or you just love to hike, swim, canoe, or camp in general. If you want to get in shape with me. ;)

But please consider a pass if you are a religious fanatic, bigot, sexist, political fascist, over indulgent self important opinion nazi, xenophobic, racist, homophobic, egomaniacal, uncaring, objectifying, pious, heliocentric, psycho hose beast who has gotten through life only by use of her (or his) looks and dreading the impending doom of their E channel predetermined standard of "beauty" until he/she slowly turns into an evil demon who has no soul and devours the freedom of the people. Yaaaargh!!!!