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Astrobrite2

37 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am rhythmic, harmonic, and melodic.

My Self-Summary

I think we're all to complex to be defined in a little box like this. I try to live my life so that I get constant chances to use both the left and right sides of my brain...so far so good.

What I’m doing with my life

Music is a huge part of my life! I drum in bands that have played with Bjork, Sonic Youth, The Verve, Spiritualized, Blonde Redhead, My Bloody Valentine, Chairlift and Crystal Stilts. Does any of this strike a chord with you?

I took some years off from performing to learn the business side of the music industry and became an entertainment attorney for a major record label. I left that gig to travel the world and ended up visiting 12 countries in 2007. Now I'm a media attorney for a well-known local TV station/network and am gladly back busy drumming. I'm also looking forward to donating my time to represent a family in their upcoming foreclosure hearing in order to try and save their home. In the post-Bush era, people need to help each other.

I’m really good at

Drumming, kissing, dancing, laughing and traveling.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my lips or my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Documentary films and biopics like Decline of the Western Civilization, Joe Strummer: The Future Is Unwritten and The Weathermen Underground. Some other favorite films and directors are Midnight Express, Marathon Man, Boys From Brazil, A Clockwork Orange, Glen Garry Glenn Ross, Drugstore Cowboy, Christiane F., anything Scorcese or Kenneth Anger.

Music is to big a subject to cover here but my iPod shuffles everything from The Clash to Parliament/Funkadelic, Band Of Horses, Cat Power, TV On The Radio, Mahogany, Cocteau Twins, Black Flag, Panda Bear, Deerhunter, M.I.A., Nick Cave, LCD Soundsystem, Daft Punk to Curtis Mayfield.

Usually reading a few books at a time. Things like Rip It Up And Start Again by Simon Reynolds, Tighten Up by Marc Griffiths, The Long Tail by Chris Anderson and The Amboy Dukes by Irving Shulman.

All types of food...Thai, Italian, French...bring it!

The six things I could never do without

Besides the two obvious things (family and friends), there's music, desire, meditation...and my passport!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I read magazines and newspapers from back to front.

You should message me if

You're open to new experiences and have a positive mental attitude. Bonus points if you are (or used to be) musically or artistically inclined or involved in some kind of creative or scientific field. In a nutshell, you dig passion and creativity.

I'd much prefer to connect with you if you know that we're only using this site as a tool to meet people in person relatively quickly and step away from the computer screen. Please...no baggage from ex-relationships (or what you claim to be an ex-relationship). You should be living in the present and not the past and must be available. Also, I was raised to be a person of my word and that's an important quality I'm looking for in others. Thus, flakiness with plan making is a real turn-off.