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AtATable42

58 M Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Looking for that special someone who enjoys cycling, hiking, movies, books and great conversation. Being healthy and fit is important to me and I'm looking for someone who feels the same way. An inquisitive mind, a healthy sense of humor, and a sharp wit are also very, very attractive. Add honest and open communication...essential. I'm somewhat left of center politically and looking for someone who has a liberal perspective as well. If this sounds like you, I'd really love to hear from you.

A little about me...I have a BA in psychology and an MBA. Makes for an interesting combination. I was born and raised in Hawaii and moved to Silicon Valley after graduate school. I've worked like a fiend in information technology for some of the largest tech companies in the valley and now it's time to find some balance and enjoy. At this stage in my life, I feel that I'm in a really, really good place. Financially secure, open, and ready to start the next chapter.

Friends would say I'm upbeat and well grounded, comfortable in my own skin, very easy to talk to, and a careful listener with a lot of life experience to share. Striving to be fully aware and mindful (that's the "psychology" part of me talking). Myers-Briggs INTJ.

People are always very surprised when they ask my age. Good genes, exercise, eating right, and consistently trying to maintain the right attitude and do the right thing help!

“The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it.”
Thích Nhat Hanh, Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
What I’m doing with my life
Staying lean, fit, and happy. Just completed my Project and Program Management Certificate program at UC Santa Cruz Extension. Volunteering with the Silicon Valley United Way. Planning my “encore career.” Just getting into yoga. My initial six-week class just ended so I'm looking for a good studio closer to home.
I’m really good at
...connecting with people and helping them to reach good outcomes. At the end of the day, that's what tech companies paid me to do. It’s what I work hard to do for my clients at the United Way where I volunteer. And it’s just what us MBTI INTJs are known to do well!
The first things people usually notice about me
I would say my eyes and my smile. You can tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books – Anything by Lan Samantha Chang (browse "All Is Forgotten, Nothing is Lost"). Also really appreciated Walter Isaacson’s biography of Steve Jobs. I know that’s a bit dated now, but just a splendid job. Current bedside book is Arianna Huffington's "Thrive." I spend a lot of time reading...current events, business and investment news, perspectives, analyses...

Movies – Love movies. Partial to documentaries (enjoyed 20 Feet From Stardom and Robert Reich’s Inequality For All). Memento, Mulholland Drive, Ronin (1998 with De Niro). Big Coen brothers fan. I've seen Blade Runner (theatrical and director's cut) more times than I can count. Light, fun stuff like Galaxy Quest, Sky High, The Incredibles. And some major Hollywood releases like Thor and the Ironman series.

Shows - Devoted NPR, PBS, and KQED fan (yes, I send in my donation to KQED every year). I could watch and listen to Katty Kay of the BBC all day long. Binge-watched Breaking Bad and Grey’s Anatomy on Netflix with my daughter. BTW, if you are into Fox News we will probably NOT get along :).

Music – The Classics: Zeppelin, Stones, Blue Oyster Cult, Duran Duran, Elton John, Clapton, Natalie Merchant and 10,000 Maniacs, Dire Straits, Steely Dan, Santana, U2, Fleetwood Mac, The Pretenders, etc. etc. Also like Pink, Maroon 5, and still hooked on Lana Del Ray’s Summertime Sadness video.

Food - I grew up in Hawaii. I'll try anything.

Other interests - Cycling, motorcycles, hiking, volunteer work, coffee, wine, and, of course, good conversation.
The six things I could never do without
My two wonderful adult daughters
Coffee!
NPR
Smart, witty conversation and laughter
My ti Litespeed Classic bike
Good books and movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...the “why” of things. I’m curious about why events unfold as they do and why people behave the way they do. What are the motivations and driving factors? What does it mean and what does it tell us? (Yes, I did take a lot of psychology courses in college). Kaizen and Lean as life philosophies.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home catching up with one or both of my adult daughters, enjoying a glass a wine and trying out a new recipe (yes, I cook!), checking out something new on Netflix or PBS, reading, or out...at some event or for a night motorcycle ride.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sorry. Guess you'll just have to ask me about the juicy stuff in person.

Oh, and the age on my profile? 100% accurate. Photos are all from this year. Honesty and integrity matter...don't you think?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...anything you read here piques your interest. My mind-reader app is on the blink so if you don't send a message there is no way for me to know that we just might be great together. I answer all messages so you're guaranteed to get a reply from me. Scout's honor :).