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  • Ages 38-52
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 24
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm generally an easy-going guy, on the quiet side. I'm an introvert, but I do love to be with good people. I'm a thinker and a tinkerer. I like to work with my hands and I like working with people. I've been single again for several years now. I enjoy my own company. But I would love to find a very special woman to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I seem to be helping people more often than not. I'm helping to start a community service group, we are organizing volunteers to help people with practical needs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. Really.

I'm a good driver. Sometimes I get accused of driving like a grandma. But most often I beat Google maps estimated travel time.

I've been kind of a jack of all trades. I had been working on a Master's Degree in Philosophy, but was unable to finish. So I'm a jack of all trades and master of none. Even if I had earned my Master's, I'm pretty sure Philosophy is not considered a trade. On the other hand it did teach me to read, write, and think quite well.

I put myself through school doing handyman work. I do better than most at some of those things. Though please don't ask me to work on the plumbing, neither of us will probably be happy.

Update - Just fixed a kitchen sink, it has me feeling better about the plumbing thing.

I'm good at doing geeky stuff. I worked with computers for many years, system integration, networking, troubleshooting, etc. I became quite good at that. I was often called in to be a trouble shooter. I love science, medicine and technology.

I'm a pretty decent communicator and seem to be able to find common ground with most people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, I think. Or if they hear me first, my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lets start with food. There's a magnificent Thai restaurant about a mile from my house. Marvelous food. When I eat there I feel like there's a party going on in my mouth. It's authentic and healthy cuisine. Blue Adobe Grill is also nearby. I classify it as Gourmet Fusion Mexican, Fabu. At home I've been eating a more healthy diet & I want to continue this trend. Less simple carbs, sugar, saturated fat, fried food, etc. It's working.

Books, I love books, don't seem to have the time to read like I'd like. I read the "Enders Game" series this fall; there was some pretty "out of the box" thinking. I usually have several books that I'm working on at a time.

I prefer live music. I was a voice major for a year, many years ago. My tastes are somewhat eclectic. I have a buddy with an 80's R&R band, they have so much fun. He and I used to lead worship together at a Baptist Church, even more years ago.

Movies: I just saw "Monuments Men". It was worth seeing, all star cast, great performances, a compelling true story. "Princess Bride" is on the all time favorites list, probably my most quoted movie.

TV, not so much. about 4 hours a week maybe. News, Sports. I got rid of cable. TV is the black-hole of entertainment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Setting aside my relationship with the Creator and Maslow's first two levels, essentials for life, and some level of security...
1. My phone has become so indispensable, I really don't like that about it.
2. My family.
3. My cadre of friends, who've been tried and tested.
4. A nice, quiet place to retreat to.
5. I don't know what I would do without having my books around. I'm not reading all the time, but just having them around reminds me of their lessons.
6. The internet has connected me to so much... Old friends, new ideas, News from around the world...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm always thinking. I was amazed to find that there are some people who aren't always thinking. I thought, "that's just not possible". I'd like to say that I spend most of my time thinking about deep and weighty matters, relationships, and connection. Honestly, it's probably mostly about my ever-expanding to-do list. In the last couple of years I've been learning to take time to intentionally not think, but rather to meditate in quiet and solitude. It's taking some discipline.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That wouldn't be very private then would it? Let me get to know you better and maybe I'll share the good stuff. ;-)
You should message me if
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You know who you are and are a woman of integrity, faith and passion. You don't NEED a man and your desires don't control you.