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60 Allendale, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 23
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a down to earth grounded, even-tempered, easy going, tolerant person. My communication style is to find the meaning in one’s message. I am respectful of differences in opinion. I am non-judgmental. I do not argue. Life is too precious. My goal in life is to be happy. I am looking for a like-minded person. I love people and animals, particularly horses.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am on a life long journey of learning. I love to learn. I am seeking a like minded person who is also on a journey to understand our purpose on earth during this incredibility opportunistic time. He is also an honest, compassionate, courageous explorer who is willing to embrace change with an open heart and mind. I am seeking someone who is also passionate about life, feels happy and complete with his own life, and finds humor to lighten the day. Someone who honors each individual’s right to follow their own path, someone who unconditionally accepts each person’s life choices. This person will define himself by his avocation, not his vocation. He will practice daily random acts of kindness and will recognize that every thought, deed and word has intention. This person shows empathy, compassion and respect to people, children, animals and the earth.

I am seeking a companion, a friend, a lover, an equal life partner, and a family bond. He mutually loves children and parenting. He loves all pets in the household. He is also seeking a like-minded community of people. We can be anywhere on this planet, as long as our heart is our home.

I am seeking my soul mate. This person will also embrace the inevitable challenges life presents for us. He is a gentle spiritual person. I am putting this message out to the universe because I know that you are out there somewhere. I do believe that we can dream our world into being.
I’m really good at
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I have learned to be resourceful, responsible, and self-sufficient. I’m good at keeping my promises as I was married for 20 years. I’m good at providing for my sixteen year old son as I had worked full-time as a Speech and Language Therapist for the past 30 years (now retired) and have been a single mom for most of his life. I continually challenge myself. I am a life-long learner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a vegetarian, specifically a pesco-vegetarian who also eats fish (and occasionally poultry). I would prefer my partner to be a vegetarian also but it is not mandatory. My son decides his own dietary lifestyle. At this point in his life, he chooses to eat meat. My emphasis is to eat healthy organic food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never take the following for granted: a body, a brain, breathing, earth, gravity, light, shelter, sustenance, spirit and water. Equally important to me are my son, my family, love, compassion, empathy, kindness, joy, humor, integrity, intention, and trust. For those who are counting, yes there are more than six things that are important to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too many to list here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I believe in angels.

"We are the ones we have been waiting for." Hopi
You should message me if
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You are so motivated to do so or if you think you may be my soul mate. :) Carol