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Atap33

39 Atlanta, GA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–49
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:42pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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It's fairly easy to connect with someone physically. I'm having a difficult time finding a man I can connect with on a mental and emotional level. Intelligence is paramount for me. Thought provoking conversation, discussions about events going on outside of the US or not being aired on CNN/MSNBC/etc, is foreplay to me. Give me RT News/NPR/BBC/Al Jazeera any day. Having a good grasp of the English language makes me smile. Being able to communicate effectively via written and oral modes is also important. Scrabble is a favorite game of mine. If you can beat me, I'd probably propose to you :-).

I work in Sales and really enjoy my job and the people/company I work with. I can't sit still and my work allows me to travel a lot. When I'm not working, I'm either relaxing at home or at the gym. I absolutely love to exercise. It's therapeutic and it also counters my gluttonous love for food :-). When I'm not at the gym or relaxing, I'm planning a trip or travelling somewhere. International travel is my passion. I try to use my passport 1-3 times a year. Some of the best places I've visited are: India, Kenya, Jamaica, Ivory Coast, Ghana, Nigeria, Guatemala, Belize, and St Marteen. I've lived in both Africa and Europe. I love to laugh and smile a lot. My humor is more on the sarcastic side. I enjoy satire and dry comedy. Most people consider me a fun person and a joy to be around. I have to admit, I'm very much a kid at heart; however I have no patience for tomfoolery. I don't do well with drama/conflict and try to avoid them at all costs. If I feel an argument is about to ensue, I'm looking for the nearest exit!

I'm drawn to dominant, 'take charge' men. Because I've been independent for so long; I'm responsible for everything in my life and am the 'go to' person for friends and family. I carry a lot on my shoulders and would love to meet someone that allows me to 'let my hair down'. Honestly, being submissive and playing more of traditional role appeals to me in some regards. Sometimes, I just want to not think. :-). Men of substance who are humble, dependable, decisive, consistent, chivalrous, honest/upfront, follow through on promises, protectors and providers for their families, rank highly for me. I should also add that b/c I'm athletic, I tend to be attracted to more athletic body types.

I love to dance to Caribbean and African music. I enjoy cooking as well. I'm pretty good at preparing Caribbean, African, and Asian dishes.

By the way: 1. Myers Briggs Personality type: ISTJ. 2. I'm always changing my hair so if you take issue with natural hair, extensions, wigs, braids, etc, we may not be a good match. 3.If you don't know the difference between to/too, your/you're, and there/their/they're, we may not be a good match. 4. I'd really appreciate that any interested players, serial daters, and oat sowers be upfront with their intentions from the onset and not masquerade as relationship minded individuals, as time is a priceless commodity that needn't be wasted on dishonest cowards.

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PSA: My experience with online dating has shown me that there is no absolute perfect or nice way to say "Thanks but no thanks" or "Thank you for your message; you appear to be a great guy but I don't think we are a good match. Good luck in your search." If I don't respond, I'm considered rude, inconsiderate, mean, and frankly, a b***h. If do respond, I'm sometimes insulted, my response seems to imply I'm interested, my response generates a need for an explanation as to why I'm not interested, or I'm schooled about how I'm living in a fantasy land and what I'm looking for does not exist. So since both responses lead to similar results, I'll choose the former. Though I'm flattered, if I do not respond to your message, it means I'm not interested. PLEASE, PLEASE don't be offended...it's nothing personal...it's just a dating site. Happy fishing :)
I’m really good at
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Getting things done and punctuality. I'd rather be 2 hours early than 5 minutes late.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd like to say my smile, but I'm a brutally honest person, so the truth is really my breasts. As much as I try to cover up,there's no avoiding them. People also think I'm much younger than I actually am. Most people put me between the ages of 22-27. I have no complaints!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passport
Family
Friends
Laptop
TV
Water - best juice on earth!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next trip. LOL.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm obsessed with a large pair of manly looking hands and forearms. I give good massages (I've been told).
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