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26 • Decatur, GA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:47pm
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Working on university
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
I'm kinky, looking for an open relationship, and am open to polyamory as well. Not that love is strictly defined. What's the difference between a fuck bud, a friend with benefits, and a romantic partner? Blurring lines is a specialty of mine.
As I've done more and more with kink lately, the more confident I've become, with who I am and what I want, and this confidence is related to far more than merely the sexual. Confidence is the difference between being a nobody and making the world your oyster. And that's the journey I'm on, now. Oh, and going back to the kink, I've realized it's something I can't do without, it's just far too fun. ;-)
Solving abstract problems. Theories of math, theology, and philosophy are no match for me when I give such things my full attention. It also makes me good at reading people, which in turn makes me good at giving advice.
Games. I've never become an expert at anything, but I'm naturally very talented with gaming. There are very few games--whether they're video/computer games, boardgames, card games, or anything else really--that I can't win the majority (more than half) of the time. You have been warned.
Making coherent sentences when I'm too tired to plan what I'm going to say in advance. :)
Music: Bach, Handel, Vivaldi, Beethoven, Mozart, Shubert, The Beatles, Enya, The Lord of the Rings, Bim, Lady Gaga, The Shins, St. Vincent
Movies: The Lord of the Rings, The Incredibles, Amelie, V for Vendetta, The Dark Knight, Serenity, Love Actually, The Matrix, The Matrix Reloaded, The Bourne Trilogy, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Moonrise Kingdom
TV: The Colbert Report
Music - I can go for hours without listening to anything and then go for hours listening to music nonstop. Besides that, I come from a musical family with both my parents and brother being singers, and while I can sing, I tend to favor other musical instruments more. I've played the flute since 5th grade and I'm currently self-teaching myself to play the piano.
Thinking - As I've mentioned, I love creating stories and scenarios in my head. I also tend to think of more philosophical stuff, which can also fit in with my stories, amazingly enough.
Sex - Talking about it, having it, watching it. It's part of being human, and a rather large part for me. It is inextricably linked to who I am as a person, and necessary to be fully me. It enlivens, excites, and invigorates not only the body, but the mind and emotions as well. At least for me.
The mysteries of the universe.
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