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31 F Chicago, IL

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Last Online
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Asian, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If I was a tree, I'd be an oak whose trunk is 18 years tall, then splits off into two branches. Then some asshole comes along and cuts me down and makes a beautiful stained coffee table out of me. So now I just sit there with Tanqueray dirty martinis sweating rings into my varnish while I listen to these douchebags talk about Malcom Gladwell and the importance of regulating the Market. Ridiculous.
What I’m doing with my life
Metal. Whiskey. Grindcore. Drums.

I love bourbon and powerviolence more than I love most people.
I’m really good at
Trying to avoid stagnation and complacency (complacency is the cousin of death).

And in the meantime, teaching the childrenzzzzz.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If you don't like this, I can never talk to you:

Books (authors): Michio Kaku, Brian Greene, Juno Diaz. Gramsci, Humbolt, Mead, Durkheim, Kotlowitz, Zinn. Italo Calvino. Foucault.

Oh, and my husband - Cornel West. Maybe you have heard of him?


I made a mix for a game night I recently hosted and the following were represented: Aesop Rock, Andromeda Mega Express Orchestra, Animals as Leaders, At the Gates, The Bad Plus, Bolt Thrower, Cave In, Matt Chamberlain, Chthonic, Coalesce, Converge, Dessa, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Dub Trio, Estradasphere, Exploding Star Orchestra, Fantomas, Grails, Edvard Grieg, Hella, Jerseyband, Kid Koala, The Locust, Meshuggah, Mr. Lif, Om, P.O.S, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Rotting Christ, Russian Circles, Secret Chiefs 3, Septicflesh, Shining, Sigh, Sleepytime Gorilla Museum, Squarepusher, Amon Tobin, Tomahawk, Tortoise, Trentemøller

And if I had more time, I may have added:
-Sao Paolo Underground
-Gangpol and Mit
-7,000 Dying Rats
-Tim Fite

Also pretty excited for the Maryland Death Fest lineup this year, namely Vitamin X.

Tera Melos. Adabisi Shank. And So I Watch You From Afar.

Also, duh - Merle, Hank, Patsy, Waylon and Johnny.
The six things I could never do without
The International Journal of Verbal Aggression
Glossy posters of human brain anatomy
The Bass Clef
Roto Toms / a nice pair of Vic Firths
Inspirational cat poster - "Hang in There"
Metal hair / windmills
On a typical Friday night I am
It's a real cool club, and you're not part of it.

Listening to The Bastard Noise and avoiding people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After I found out that Varg killed Euronymous, I felt nothing. Except maybe more love for Burzum.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
- You want to swap tour stories.

- You have metal hair that can rival my metal hair.

-You have been to a lumberjack competition, and want to compare notes.

- Bonus points of you have a passport and/or an awareness of Kaechon Internment Camp (Camp 14).

- You want to bring me bourbon and vegan tacos.

- You enjoy this:

-Or this: