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44 M Alexandria, VA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I contradict myself more than anyone else ever has.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a graphic designer and art director for a small publishing company I own part of, run another on the side, and do freelance layout and design as well. A lot of this is involved with tabletop RPG, board and card games. I'm kind of a professional nerd.

I am the poster child for "overcommitment".

I'm also making a serious effort to get much fitter. It's not like it's going to get easier as I get older.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.


Oh, all right. I'm reasonably good at graphic design, cooking, writing, and procrastinating. I'm actually kinda good at a lot of things. Being a jack of all trades can be a bit of a curse.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'll talk to anyone and everyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I have what could be called a "music problem". Rather than list favorite bands, I'll just list the last 10 albums I acquired:

V/A - Eccentric Soul - The Way Out Recording Company
Protomartyr - Under Color of Official Right
Yasmine Hamden - Ya Nass
Pharoah Sanders - Pharoah's First
Curtis Harding - Soul Power
Old 97's - Most Messed Up
Del tha Funkee Homosapien - Deltron 3030
Lone - Reality Testing
Kanye West - College Dropout
The Pains of Being Pure at Heart - Days of Abandon
The Roots - ...and then you shoot your cousin
The Black Keys - Turn Blue
Jessica Lee Mayfield - Make My Head Sing...
The Afghan Whigs - Do the Beast
Cloud Nothings - Here and Nowhere Else
White Hinterland - Baby

Wait. That's 16. Well, I DID say I have a music problem...

Books: Dracula, Sherlock Holmes, Focualt's Pendulum, Cryptonomicon, anything by Heinlen, Weber, Lovecraft, micro-histories...Look, I have a book problem too, ok? I also have a basement full of comics and graphic novels, and a crap-ton of games.

Food: I will try pretty much anything once, and keep eating it again if I like it.

Movies: I love film, with a special focus on sci-fi and fantasy movies, monster movies (no torture porn horror, please), and Asian cinema. My most recent cinematic obsession has probably been the movie Drive.

I am also a pretty ardent fan of fine, lowbrow and outsider art, pinup art and photography, and illustration. I'm running out of wall space in my house to be honest. I might have to start rotating things.

My tumblr name is atomicovermind, should you care to sample my tastes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Booze, books, technology, DC Sports, good food, games. (an un-ordered list).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Righting the listing schooner that is my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out seeing a band, watching sports in a local bar, dining well in the city, or at a friend's place playing games. Those are the usual locations.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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How to put this...if you are a prude, you probably won't ultimately enjoy my company. Let's just leave it at that.

And I have a cat who hates everyone but me. If you take a cat hating you personally, be advised.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating