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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:31pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I love life and connecting with others. I won't go into the stereotypical "fun and laid back" laziness for my profile. I know what I want and I enjoy pursuing my passions. I'm currently working to get a professional certification for my job, and want to go back for a Masters sometime in the future. I strongly believe in volunteering and helping make the world a better place for everyone to live. I try to stay active and enjoy hiking, bike riding, swimming, and taking fitness classes. I also have a fitness hula hoop that I got from Korea.

I taught English for a year in Korea so if you are interested in talking about that I am always happy to share my experience. ideally I would love to work abroad again, but that won't be for a while.

I am a romantic at heart though I feel and love to feel a deep connection with the people I am with. I love to see the passion in people's eyes, and find out what crazy desires they hold in their hearts.

I love nerdy things like comics, video games, and cartoons but don't try to label myself with "gamer" or "nerd" since I have a lot of varied interests which extend far beyond the nerdy realm. I have an impressive collection of board games, and am always up for some pen and paper roleplaying.

I am a feminist and believe in the cause of equality for all sexual orientations and sexual identities.

I love meeting new people and making connections with interesting individuals. I honestly believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way and always try to seek that in people I surround myself with.

I am married in a poly relationship with my wife. I realize that is a turn off for a lot of people, but it is how it is and I like to be open and honest about it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am in the process of buying my first house! Working on my professional certification in Volunteer Administration. Trying to get in (better) shape. Reorganizing my life to hopefully make things easier in the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good at listening to others and have the terrible habit of always trying to help. I am great at turning stressful situations into something enjoyable. I am also pretty good at video games but that doesn't sound nearly as impressive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Male pattern baldness, or my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Bill Bryson is my favorite author, but I also love reading sociology/ethnographic studies because learning more about people is my main hobby.

MOVIES: I enjoy them. Though I am not a huge fan of horror movies.

SHOWS: As mentioned I love cartoons, though I am not to picky on where they are from. I am very picky when it comes to Anime, unless I am on one of my masochistic streaks.

MUSIC: My music tastes are extremely varied so kinda hard to pin down.

FOOD: Korean food is amazing, I wish you could get more authentic stuff here in the States.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cats
My wife
My family
That sexual healing
Sarcastic final answer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Honestly? I spend a lot of time fantasizing about different topics, ranging from the universe to sex. Although I do spend a lot of time reading stories on the internet so perhaps my imagination is a byproduct of that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find an adventure!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm sure I can think of something if you ask.
You should message me if
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If you're interested in making a new friend with boundless possibilities. I am always looking for new companions to share this long road with.