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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 11, 2014
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Nice guy. Sometimes Funny. Curious. Creative. Thoughtful.
Self-absorbed. Opinionated. Patient. Quirky.
...magically delicious.
" in a den of thieves. Rummaging for answers in the pages"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a small Audio Production studio when not at a low level position with the government. Working excitedly on creative projects with others. Enjoying something in Manhattan. Helping the elders of my extended family with errands where/when they need.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Developing creative projects. Being attentive to loved ones.
( this feels a bit like filling out a job application. If I see something like "What additional skill sets will you bring to this relationship?" I think I'll just end this experiment) ...and probably turning off any woman reading all of this.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't look as friendly as I actually turn out to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Confederacy Of Dunces. Freedom. White Teeth. Naked. Time Traveler's Wife.
And I'm gonna go ahead and say Catcher (but not in a creepy serial killy kind of way. no. no.)
Amelie, Shawshank, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Almost Famous, Usual Suspects, Girl on a Bridge, Life is Beautiful, Eternal Sunshine, GoodFellas, Tea with Mussolini, Hedwig, Being John Malkovich, Breakfast Club, Red Violin, Private Ryan, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Unforgiven, Inception, Juno, Station Agent, Annie Hall, Mighty Aphrodite ...Old B&W movies with Kate Hepburn, or Joan Crawford etc.

I enjoy plays more than musicals. I'd love to catch something by Mamet. Currently have plans to finally see Lion King. Clybourne Park was enjoyable. Book Of Mormon is high on the to do list ...Higher is Virginia Wolf.
Still upset I missed Alan Cumming in Cabaret.
loved Wicked.
80s synth pop, The CURE, Prince, Pixies, Flock of Seagulls, U2 . Lots of acoustic guitar singer/songwriters--mostly female leads. old R&B. movie scores, modern serious music. Romantic-era classical music, Zoe Keating. Alison Krauss. Tin Hat Trio, Explosions in the Sky
Non-Gangsta Pre 00s Hip Hop. Modal jazz. The occasional lucky find from NPR
Food: American/ Italian/ Latin/ Indian/West Indian
...Chinese take-out (because it's sort of it's own thing innit?)
Some seafood. I love a beautiful dry-aged steak and great California Red but generally save red meat for special occasions.
Rothko, Kline, Motherwell
Game of Thrones, Big Bang, How I met your Mother, Mad Men, Girls, New Girl, Charlie Rose, Spartacus, SNL, MSNBC, PBS News Hour, Front Line, Masterpiece Classic, OCCASIONALLY Fox News, CNBC, TMC, BBC, and...
Finn & Jake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My musical instruments.
News media.
(not in that order, and off the cuff)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social issues.
My position on issues.
Artistic matters.
short term and long term Goals.
Reconciling my spiritual side with my scientific side.
..and Probably over thinking any single thing that enters my mind at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
NOT interested in doing anything noisy, crowded, or that includes standing in long lines (assuming Friday night means the start of some fun free time. I don't have those. I have to schedule).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be nothing here.
Well, that sounds Like a cop out...
This strikes me as the part of the job interview where they ask "What would you say is your biggest short coming?"
and I answer "Constantly upsetting my bosses greatest expectations by gratuitously exceeding them with uncanny regularity. I just can't help it! If only I could stop out-shining co-workers with such panache! GOD!"
But I won't do that.
This is an opportunity to really play with the limits of TMI...
To really get as close to sabotaging myself as possible.
hmmm. I'll say...
1) I wet the bed until I was 7.
2)I think body hair(regarding the usually shaved places) on a woman is kind of sexy as long as it doesn't far exceed that which I can produce as an adult man.

How's that?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You'd like to share any of the things you've read.
-You and I match over 80%
-You don't mind simply remaining friends.
-You believe a few weeks of casual emailing is a good and trusty safeguard before advancing another step--so to easily keep a steady finger on that "Eject Button". NO need to shortcut or underestimate a hearty vetting process.

(Photos provided upon request.)