Rarely am i not in control.(don't worry i'm harmless..unless..) With that said, why not keep it at ten?
If you're referred to as bashful, timid, shy or any variant, i'll more than likely be the hammer that 'cracks your shell' if you will.. If however you are equal parts hammer, equal part extrovert, i'm all about 'sharing the light'. '10' is usually my destination, meaning, whether i'm sitting on my Brooklyn stoop with a bangin rum punch, or in a three piece suit dining at Per Se, i'm having a DAMN good time.