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42 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:13pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Just to let you all know I am outta town for two weeks for work.

I am a incredibly normal and down to Earth kinda guy. Some would say immature....I ignore them. Others would say fun, outgoing, adventurous, giving, good natured, creative...I like those people.

I grew up in the upper midwest in a very large Roman Catholic family. I learned very early on to be assertive, know when to hold my ground and when to yield. My parents raised me very well. I am very independent, well balanced. They gave me room to become my own person, an adventurous spirit and the ability to shrug off the little things that seem to drive most of the masses nuts.
What I’m doing with my life
I build and "engineer" exhibits for museums all over the country. That means I travel a great deal and get to go to places and see things that are a little behind the scenes of everyday life.

I have been working in the entertainment biz for 20 some odd years...films, TV, theater, dance, opera and live show touring. I have lived a lot of life through my career, met some amazing people and seen some very cool things.

I can't imagine doing anything else (sitting at a desk shuffling data around would just destroy me). I get to play for a living :)
I’m really good at
Cake or death, shitting genius, traveling, being authentic, being by myself, buying books and getting around to reading them two years later, building, fixing, tinkering, being kind to animals, falling asleep at concerts, hanging really heavy shit from ceilings, being totally comfortable with heights, oral sex, buying my date dinner, driving, negotiating around foreign cities, drinking beer, understanding heavy Scottish brogues, quoting movies, self deprecating Jewish humor, pissing off anybody that defines themselves by a political party, being a normal empathetic human being.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't really think about that.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read...mostly non-fiction. (I am not going to impress you with a ton of authors and books most people don't read, I will, however, let you borrow them)
Music....yep...I listen to music
I am a huge fan of film, theater, opera and TV
I love photography, swimming, archery, kayaking......
Eating all the meat, gluten, GMOs and any other socially maligned food I can get my hands on. Food is not a political issue with me.
The six things I could never do without
Great travel stories
Copious amounts of yummy food, drinks and good company
Border Collies
Adventurous attitudes
A simple life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
In all seriousness..... New projects and travel. For in SLC, Raleigh, Atlanta and Beijing. Travel: China, Vietnam, Cambodia and possibly Thailand.

in all silliness...I rarely find people intimidating. Lots of insecurity....but then again, we all are to one degree or another...But rarely am I intimidated by education, money, sex or power. If your friends or parents say you are need new friends and parents :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about or staying at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"You can like the life you're livin' or live the life you like....."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you are creative, artistic, a writer, poet, actor, photographer.... or a classical romantic trapped in corporate body. I appreciate people that can uses both sides of their brain.

A woman that travels on her own is by far the most impressive type of person on the planet....that is just my opinion ;) I have been known to write people solely to ask where they are in their picture.

You are Katherine Hepburn or Tilda Swinton
You love men
You are a travel writer with nymphomaniac tendencies.
Ohhhh...casual sex does not equate to hooking up for a series of one night stands with multiple partners (can't believe I have to preface that one)