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43 M Beijing, China

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"And away we go.....again....." Off to Beijing for three or so weeks for work. I will be in town from October 19-November 10

"My father says that almost the whole world is asleep.
Everybody you know. Everybody you see. Everybody you talk to. He says that only a few people are awake and they live in a state of constant total amazement." Joe Versus the Volcano

I am a incredibly normal and down to Earth kinda guy. Some would say immature....I ignore them. Others would say fun, outgoing, adventurous, giving, good natured, creative...I like those people.

I grew up in the upper midwest in a very large Roman Catholic family. I learned very early on to be assertive, know when to hold my ground and when to yield. My parents raised me very well. I am very independent, well balanced. They gave me room to become my own person, an adventurous spirit and the ability to shrug off the little things that seem to drive most of the masses nuts.
What I’m doing with my life
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I build and "engineer" exhibits for museums all over the country. That means I travel a great deal and get to go to places and see things that are a little behind the scenes of everyday life.

I have been working in the entertainment biz for 20 some odd years...films, TV, theater, dance, opera and live show touring. I have lived a lot of life through my career, met some amazing people and seen some very cool things.

I can't imagine doing anything else (sitting at a desk shuffling data around would just destroy me). I get to play for a living :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cake or death, shitting genius, traveling, being authentic, being by myself, buying books and getting around to reading them two years later, building, fixing, tinkering, being kind to animals, falling asleep at concerts, polemics, hanging really heavy shit from ceilings, being totally comfortable with heights, oral sex, buying my date dinner, driving, negotiating around foreign cities, not defining myself with "isms", drinking beer, critiquing production value, understanding heavy Scottish brogues, quoting movies, self deprecating Jewish humor, pissing off anybody that defines themselves by a political party, being a normal empathetic human being.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really think about that.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read...mostly non-fiction. (I am not going to impress you with a ton of authors and books most people don't read, I will, however, let you borrow them)
Music....yep...I listen to music
I am a huge fan of film, theater, opera and TV
I love photography, swimming, archery, kayaking......
Eating all the meat, gluten, GMOs and any other socially maligned food I can get my hands on. Food is not a political issue with me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great travel stories
Copious amounts of yummy food, drinks and good company
Border Collies
Adventurous attitudes
A simple life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In all seriousness..... New projects and travel. For 2014/15... The zoo, Chicago, Yellowstone...ya never know what you'll end up doing in my biz. Travel: Well, I just finished two weeks in the Republic of Ireland and a week in Northern Ireland.....unbelievable life changing trip. Next year....Vietnam, Cambodia and maybe Thailand.

in all silliness...I rarely find people intimidating. Lots of insecurity....but then again, we all are to one degree or's what makes us all far more interesting. Rarely am I intimidated by education, money, sex or "power". If your friends or parents say you are need new friends and parents :)

And even more silliness...

Winds from the east... "Mist comin' in... Like something's a brewing, about to begin... Can't put me finger on what lies in store... But I feel what's to happen, all happened before..."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about or staying at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"You can like the life you're livin' or live the life you like....." Chicago
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are creative, artistic, a writer, poet, actor, photographer.... or a classical romantic trapped in corporate body. I appreciate people that can uses both sides of their brain.

A woman that travels on her own is by far the most impressive type of person on the planet....that is just my opinion (it's a fucking good one) I have been known to write people solely to ask where they are in their picture.

You are Katherine Hepburn, Tilda Swinton, Martha Gellhorn or Camille Paglia.
You love men
You love to be challenged.
Your journey does not end at the middle.
You are perfectly comfortable being alone.
You are a travel writer with nymphomaniac tendencies.
Ohhhh...casual sex does not equate to hooking up for a series of one night stands with multiple partners at least for me.