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29 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:24am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'll make this short. If you're an attractive girl on here, you get 20-50 messages a day, and I don't (typically) send repeated messages. If you're interested, respond back, if you're not, don't.

I'm pretty bad at responding during the weekend. Ann Arbor is a busy town in the summer. You can find me at Starbucks or the Beer Garden if you're really desperate to meet me.

I typically date girls a bit younger (though I don't discriminate specifically on age) because I find that a lot of women at my age seem to want to settle down immediately - and that just doesn't feel natural to me. I like taking my time and seeing who I click with.

I am:

* Ambitious - I want to build an empire. I'm planning on launching several side businesses this year, and I develop enterprise software systems for major companies.

I'm also developing an app for the Democratic National Committee for the 2014 election campaign.

* Funny - I like to do silly improv comedy or sing ridiculous karaoke songs. I recently was purchased hammer pants by a friend, and I have given my word I will dance in them.

* Athletic - I do Crossfit 3x a week (and hopefully 4x soon), and I do two days of physical therapy a week for an old hip/back injury.

* Educated - I went to college and I've read a lot of books. Philosophy, biology, psychology.

* Sarcastic - I will tease you.

* Adventurous - I like to explore new places, including Detroit. I eventually want to drive from Alaska to the tip of South America, and visit Antarctica. I once explored America while living out of my car, intentionally. I would do it again.

* Aggressive - I'm not pushy, but I do like to take charge and I will almost always attempt to a move if we go out on a date (as long as we're both feeling it).

* Not clingy. I don't text very often. There are days/weeks I won't even respond on here. I'm either working at my job, working on an independent project, or socializing/networking.

I'm Andy.

I want an ambitious, educated, fit, adventurous woman who can make fun of me and wants to take over the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like House of Cards and Breaking Bad.

I never saw Game of Thrones, but I did read the books when I was a teenager.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once made a girl cry when asking for her phone number.

I also 5 star everyone to see who likes me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if

I hate to say this, but the same problem has killed three promising potential relationships in the last year. This is part of my taking steps to ensure it doesn't happen again. Here it goes:

I like to get committed very slowly. If I say something like, "I care about you more than most of your actual boyfriends", "I really want to date you, but I feel I can't (because of some reason)", "I definitely see us getting serious", or, "We're definitely on the same page (while knowing you're only into serious relationships)" - I mean every word literally. Those aren't cop-outs, and I'm not "playing" you.

I just like to get committed slowly. Girls typically read it like me saying, "I'm sorta into you, but not THAT into you..", when it actually just means, "I like to get committed slowly", or, "I want to figure out this issue before we're formally committed".

I want to know who you are pretty deeply, before I want to commit. I'm not a Nazi about it though - if we've been dating for like a month or two, and we're spending a lot of time together and getting along great, and you are feeling I'm not serious and are going to literally end everything over it - let me know in advance.

Be very, very clear about it too.