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28 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:13pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'll make this short. If you're an attractive girl on here, you get 20-50 messages a day, and I don't (typically) send repeated messages. If you're interested, respond back, if you're not, don't.

I am:

* Ambitious - I want to build an empire. I'm planning on launching several side businesses this year, and I develop enterprise software systems for major companies.

* Goofy - I like to do silly improv comedy or sing ridiculous karaoke songs. I recently was purchased hammer pants by a friend, and I have given my word I will dance in them.

* Athletic - I like to work out. I'm not as strong as I used to be due to an injury (only hurts my lifting), but I think I may have found a program that combines intensity with recovery (Crossfit). Physical fitness is important to me.

* Educated - I went to college and I've read a lot of books.

* Sarcastic - I will tease you.

* Adventurous - I like to explore new places, including Detroit. I eventually want to drive from Alaska to the tip of South America, and visit Antarctica. I once explored America while living out of my car, intentionally. I would do it again.

* Aggressive - I'm not pushy, but I do like to take charge and I will almost always attempt to a move if we go out on a date (as long as we're both feeling it).

* Not clingy. I have options. I'm only looking for the best when it comes to girls. I don't want you to ask me to be your boyfriend on a first date, or talk to me about babies after two months (both of those have happened off of here).

* More long-term oriented. I'm not against a fling or summer romance or whatever, but I'm getting to the age where I'm looking to settle down.

I'm Andy.

I want an ambitious, educated, fit, adventurous woman who can make fun of me and wants to take over the world.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if

I hate to say this, but the same problem has killed three promising potential relationships in the last year. This is part of my taking steps to ensure it doesn't happen again. Here it goes:

I like to get committed very slowly. If I say something like, "I care about you more than most of your actual boyfriends", "I really want to date you, but I feel I can't (because of some reason)", "I definitely see us getting serious", or, "We're definitely on the same page (while knowing you're only into serious relationships)" - I mean every word literally. Those aren't cop-outs, and I'm not "playing" you.

I just like to get committed slowly. Girls typically read it like me saying, "I'm sorta into you, but not THAT into you..", when it actually just means, "I like to get committed slowly", or, "I want to figure out this issue before we're formally committed".

I want to know who you are pretty deeply, before I want to commit. I'm not a Nazi about it though - if we've been dating for like a month or two, and we're spending a lot of time together and getting along great, and you are feeling I'm not serious and are going to literally end everything over it - let me know in advance.

Be very, very clear about it too.