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26 Cupertino, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 7:56am
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Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My boyfriend gavanw and I are transhumanists (excited about the idea of using technology to enhance human bodies and brains) and DnD enthusiasts.

We live in a beautiful coliving house with techies and NASA engineers.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a product manager at a web security company. They taught me to hack when I first joined the company, and now I'm a product manager working with a great team of developers.

I've had a lovely year of festivals (Ephemerisle, Priceless, Freezing Woman) and went to Burning Man for the first time this year!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking! Recent favorites: beef, brocolli, and mushroom stir fry, chicken soup, and cobb salad.

I'm an aspiring rationalist, so I look for opportunities to be more precise in my thinking and deliberate in my actions.

If you're curious about what I mean by aspiring rationalist I'd suggest these for a bit of context:, (HPMOR), and
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have occasionally mentioned lovely things about my confidence and willingness to speak my mind :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Seveneves, Superintelligence, Waking Up, Sex at Dawn, Selfish Gene, Time Enough for Love, Elon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future, Name of the Wind, Rise of the Robots, The Nine, Alanna.

Dan Savage is my god (I'm an athiest, but outlandish claims are fun). He's a positive moral force and a reasonably reliable guide in times of romantic turmoil. He encourages people to pursue their sexual desires, live balance and health lives, and take care of each other.

Movies: Bend it Like Beckham, Brokeback Mountain, Keeping the Faith, Lord of the Rings, Milk, Shelter, Tipping the Velvet, Easy A, Avatar, The Kids are All Right, and Zombieland.

TV Shows: Breaking Bad, Masters of Sex, House of Cards, House of Lies, Game of Thrones, Shameless (US), American Horror Story, and Girls. In the past I've also really enjoyed Spartacus, True Blood, Walking Dead, Six Feet Under, Modern Family, Dexter, Glee, Southland, the Shield, Kings, Big Love, Lost, Mad Men, Numb3rs, and The Wire.

Music: I listen to a lot of pop cause its on the radio and easy. I enjoy the cheerfullness of Christian rock and Country despite the politics I disagree with. A few specific artists who I really enjoy: Adam Lambert, Jay Z, Beyonce, Pink, Adel, and Metallica (particularly the S&M album where they collaborate with the SF Symphony). That's not a complete list, but I'm always happy to swap favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Could never" is a strong phrase, so I'll go with "would prefer not to" in a bit of a cop out:

Family and friends, physical activity, deliciously dark tv shows, good food, high speed internet, and interesting work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better partner, friend, and family member to the important people in my life.

How to accomplish my goals and identify new goals worth pursuing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing DnD or out to the movies. Out for drinks, dinner, a show, or a concert. There's the occasional late work night or lazy Netflix night too.
You should message me if
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You think we'd enjoy spending time together.

I am dating a delightful man right now, but we enjoy meeting new people :-)