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AurumCaminus2

30 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Cleveland, Ohio

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am Intelligent, Insightful, and Sincere.

My Self-Summary

I had a profile on here last year, but with experience I became so displeased with it I just deleted it outright.

What I’m doing with my life

Doing the family man thing. I have a wife, PolyAngelArgent, and two wonderful kids. We are a polyamorous couple; which means we believe in the capacity to love more then one person at the same time, also that we do not believe that intimate relationships must conform to any one set standard.

I’m really good at

In person I tend to read people rather well. The draw back to that being that I get such deep picture on an intuitive level that it usually takes some time to sort through it all to truly understand it.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told I'm rather hot; from many sources, several of whom had no reason to be just trying to make me feel better. But that really is of little use to me.

I've also been told that I'm a little aloof and can be rather intimidating. This however is completely unintentional, probably derived from my preference to think and act deliberately.

My best qualities however, will never be noticed at first glance.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I tend to prefer the sci-fi/fantasy genre in books, movies, and television. Yeah, I like Star-Trek. But I don't go to conventions, own a Star Fleet uniform, and the only Klingon I know is a few phrases picked up from my 8th grade Algebra teacher. He was a little weird, they were actually on the final exam and not just for extra credit.

In music I prefer harder rock and alternative mostly, though I do have an eclectic appreciation for many other styles. Rap and country however make my ears bleed.

The six things I could never do without

Caffeine, Nicotine, an active spirituality, an intimate connection with at least one human being, my own sense of honor, and self-respect.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Current events and new, contentious issues, ideas about how to make things better. My mind likes to get a hold of an idea or concept and chew on it for a while, tumbling it around and seeing how it connects with other matters not necessarily directly related and examine the patterns and correlations.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, being the sole provider of material support and transportation to a family of four, followed by my own fair share of work around the home, doesn't really leave much time for... well much of anything really. I have the capacity to prioritize and make the time for the things and people who are important to me, but free time seems to be something of a foreign concept to me these days. I will admit that I'm looking forward to the days that the kids are old enough to start taking over with the housework.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Not too much, I tend to keep things private for a reason and only share them with those that I'm close to.

You should message me if

You feel so inclined. I'll probably respond if for no other reason that it just seams polite to me.