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31 M Lawrence, KS

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  • Ages 18–30
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  • Who are single
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Last Online
Today – 5:34pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've been told that I'm not the kind of guy you want to bring home from a bar, but the kind you want to bring home to meet the parents. Personally, I'm fine with that. I'm far from dull and I still go out drinking with friends on occasion, but my wild college past is long behind me.

I try to keep a tight-knit group of friends. That said, that tight-knit group always seems to get bigger, for some reason, which is fine with me. I treat my friends like my family, which sometimes bites me in the butt.

Other than that, I'm a laid-back guy who tries to worry about bigger issues and not small details. I'll readily admit I'm a dreamer with my head in the clouds, but that always isn't a bad thing.

I am sarcastic, intelligent, and nerdy
What I’m doing with my life
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I just started a new job for a government contractor working with the Department of Education. I've worked with a few other government agencies before (DoD, FAA, etc), but this is the first time I'll be directly representing one of these agencies.

Other than that, I live with three other roommates. Between all of us, we have three cats and a dog, so there is rarely a moment of peace in the house. The roommates are all considerably younger than I am (college students), so I make an attempt to keep up with them for our house parties, but usually fail miserably.

While I'm not necessarily looking for someone to settle down with, I'm well past the "college guy" party and bar-hopping days. I'm looking for a relatively quiet relationship that still involves us having fun, and if things click, we'll take it from there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
..getting along with people. I guess I have a high empathy score on some of these tests. I'm one of those guys who understands that people can have differences of opinion and still have a civil conversation about other things. Guess it comes from being a liberal in Kansas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, so I'm told. I'm not particularly "OMG HOT," but I'm told my eyes sparkle, or something like that. Either that, or I'm usually with a group of friends talking loudly about one thing or another, and that gets people to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love cooking, but sometimes am too lazy to. If you can cook good chicken and mashed potatoes, you will be loved forever.

I haven't read books for a long time. Previous jobs required me to read almost constantly (long, boring magazine articles), so I haven't yet picked up a book I really enjoy. When I do, it will likely be a nonfiction political or historical book.

I listen to just about any kind of music. I play the guitar (or try to, not terribly good), so I try to appreciate all types of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My computer
2. guitar
3. coffee
4. My KU jacket
5. friends
6. family.... yes, the last two are cliche.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, politics, anything that my mind thinks up at any given time. I've done some stream of consciousness writing, and I'm fairly certain a clinical trial is in order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to get away from my computer, hanging out with friends over a couple beers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have this weird hobby of imagining myself writing popular, modern day songs and/or shows, and then traveling back in time and presenting them as my own, and imagining the reactions of people. Yes, it's nerdy. And I have no idea why my mind works that way.
You should message me if
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You want to talk politics, current events or just need someone to listen. I firmly believe a good conversation is the start of all good things, be it friendships, relationships or other partnerships.