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38 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), LISP (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm straightforward, loyal, happy, optimistic, passionate about what I do, interested in way too many things, constantly learning, taking things as they come.

I juggle, I photograph, I'm a software developer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to San Francisco a year ago, after having lived my whole adult life in Vienna, Austria. Vienna is a great city, but I needed a change - it became almost too comfortable and I felt if I didn't get out now I might have stayed there for good.

Now I'm trying to build a new life, and in the process improve upon myself. Find new friends, learn new things, get fitter, be a more open person, find a mate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- learning

- being a good sport

- enjoying life

- singing Hebrew children's songs in front of reasonably large audiences of Israeli jugglers, despite neither speaking Hebrew nor being a good singer
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't go around asking people what the first thing is they notice about me, so I wouldn't know. If I had to guess it'd be my height.

Update: I've just been told I look like U2's The Edge, which I've never heard before, but I can see a slight resemblance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I mostly read non-fiction these days - science, history, biographies, ... - but when it comes to fiction I particularly love funny stuff and sci-fi. Funny: P. G. Wodehouse is the best. Sci-Fi: Greg Egan, Iain M. Banks.

Music: Amanda Palmer, Regina Spektor, Beirut, Gogol Bordello, Radiohead, ...

TV: Most of all I love watching documentaries - the BBC makes the best ones. Other than that: Mythbusters, South Park, Curb Your Enthusiasm, ...

Podcasts: I love listening to podcasts! Radiolab, The Bugle, Freakonomics, Hardcore History, Planet Money, Skeptic's Guide to the Galaxy, ...

Food: Sushi!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, my juggling balls, my blender, a barbell, my bike, music by Beirut, and a few other things that don't start with B.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the world works - it's pretty complex.

Which superpower would be the most fun and/or useful to have.

Which things I don't need.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate this whole dating thing. I'd so much rather just be with the right woman and not have to look anymore.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're optimistic and smart.

You love doing what you do and could talk about if for hours.

You'd rather spend your time kicking ass and taking names than putting on make-up.

You're not into playing games.

You're emotionally available.

You'd rather be awake than asleep.

You want a long-term relationship.

You're your own person.

You like barbells.