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AutonoMeAndYou

31 M Santa Rosa, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:50am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Real
Direct
Creative
Honest
Caring
Hard Working
Fun
Spontaneous
Musician
Therapist
Hiker/Backpacker
Animal Lover
Friendly
Empathetic
Rambunctious
Grounded
Loving
Energetic
I can also be a jerk. We all have a jerk side.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
residential counselor doing social rehab therapy at a group home in santa rosa. basically keeping people out of trouble because they lack the ability not to get into it. it's very rewarding, eye opening, and hilarious every day I come into work.

I work at a facility that is client centered and humanistic, which are quite rare to see in mental health, because most facilities are behavior mod formats, which is kind of outdated, and not proven to be the most successful way to help someone manage their mental health disorders. I am proud to do the work I do for the company I work for

I play music in some kind of a punk rock band; not really sure how to describe it tho. The Marked Men meets Elvis Costello meets Rush meets Miles Davis. Ha! HOWEVER LET THIS BE KNOWN: I am definitely not a band dude. I don't walk around town looking like one of those guys that is "probably in a band" haha! There's a part of me that revels in not being able to be pegged.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
keeping up with the changes
ducking the punches
crisis triage
lending a hand
picking neighborhood flowers
hanging out with kids
hanging out with cats
hanging out with any animal actually
breaking rules
rescue
kissing
laughing
being serious
being ridiculous
being true to myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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most often it is my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like the kinds of books, movies, shows, and music that excite me, or make me think, however thinking excites me, so I guess I just like being excited...and thinking...

Food also excites me. I'm excited right now thinking about it...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am pretty sure i would need more than six parts of my body to stay alive so I am not sure this question is answerable.
if i were to speak basic human needs id say water, food, a shelter, people to care for, music to play and hear, and warmth both emotional and physical.
if I were to speak to the material world, I would say, bleh next question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
something, and then something else, and then another thing, then a series of things, then a few other things, then nothing, then more things... I just keep thinking about things.. I enjoy the nothing moments perhaps the most because I feel clear, not going here and not going there. just being here, and feeling clear. I try to cultivate more times when I am thinking about nothing. it makes all the somethings actually mean something.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making sure I don't stay up too late, because I have to work at 6:30 the next morning. however i do make exceptions and am willing to suffer the consequences of sleep deprivation, however I don't make it a habit usually
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip cookies is the main reason I have trust issues.
You should message me if
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you are beautiful, kind, and down for adventure