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32 • Santa Rosa, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 11:28am
- Asian, White, Other
- 5′ 7″ (1.71m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
I am a man of many complexities and simplicities all wrapped up in a healthy body of flesh and bones. I would say my interests are always changing, but playing music or making some kind of art always remains. As well as my love for the outdoors and traveling.
I dare not declare who I really am for only then will I fail at being my true self.
Things that I know I am not: mean, violent, selfish. Things that I know I aspire to live up to: being present and intentional, being compassionate and open minded, and being in front of a plate of incredible food.
Something else I don't do: keep up with modern day slang and text talk. My slang was imprinted in the 80's and 90's and that is primarily the way in which I communicate. A time before lol, lmfao, ty, omg, brb, yolo, swag, ratchet, and all that other stuff I find myself having to constantly look up to understand.
I love music and love playing guitar. I play music in bands, various bands over the years, yet as much as I do love performing, I tend to definitely spend more of my energy in the writing and creation parts of the musical process.
I want to build a tiny home. I like what people are doing with small living spaces.
I will be traveling to Thailand from March 31st to April 23rd.
ducking the punches
lending a hand
picking neighborhood flowers
hanging out with kids
hanging out with cats
hanging out with any animal actually
being true to myself
Food also excites me. I'm excited right now thinking about it...
if i were to speak basic human needs id say water, food, a shelter, people to care for, music to play and hear, and warmth both emotional and physical.
if I were to speak to the material world, I would say, bleh next question.
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