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32 Santa Rosa, CA Man


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  • Ages 20–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:17pm
Asian, White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, Kyle here!
I am a man of many complexities and simplicities all wrapped up in a healthy body of flesh and bones. I would say my interests are many and always changing, but playing music or making some kind of art or seeking some kind of adventure always remains. I have a passion for life and all things living.
But I dare not declare who I "think" I am for only then will I fail at being my true self.

I strive to be intentional with my words and my actions. I strive to live my life without taking things personal. I strive to do my best at whatever I'm doing no matter my skill level. I like to have fun and can be competitive when provoked but really only out of principle. Hahaha I don't need to prove anything to myself or others by "winning". And losing is just another kind of "winning" if you squint your eyes just right.

I don't do a very good job at keeping up with modern day slang and text talk. My slang was imprinted in the 80's and 90's and that is primarily the way in which I communicate to this day. A time before lol, lmfao, ty, omg, brb, yolo, swag, ratchet, and all that other stuff I find myself having to constantly look up to understand.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My career is in mental health social rehab. Psychological thinky stuff. Also a lot of babysitting kinda stuff too. Ha!

I love music and love playing guitar. I play music in bands, various bands over the years, yet as much as I do love performing, I tend to definitely spend more of my energy in the writing and creation parts of the musical process.

Just finished rebuilding a 1917 Victrola Phonograph player. And now when I come home from work I wind it up and listen to rad old timey tunes, and it is pretty amazing

I want to build a tiny home. I like what people are doing with small living spaces.

Getting my motorcycle liscence is on the list.

I also really like doing things out of my comfort zone, however I will say it's hard to get me out of my comfort zone. Not because I dig my heels in but because it's hard for me to feel uneasy or uncomfortable in most situations. I might always be the calmest one in the room.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I put my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not a d-bag
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like the kinds of books, movies, shows, and music that excite me, or make me think, however thinking excites me, so I guess I just like being excited...and thinking...

Food also excites me. I'm excited right now thinking about it...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am pretty sure i would need more than six parts of my body to stay alive so I am not sure this question is answerable.
if i were to speak basic human needs id say water, food, a shelter, something living to care for, music to play and hear, and warmth both emotional and physical.
if I were to speak to the material world, I would say, bleh next question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
something, and then something else, and then another thing, then a series of things, then a few other things, then nothing, then more things... I just keep thinking about things.. I enjoy the nothing moments perhaps the most because I feel clear, not going here and not going there. just being here, and feeling clear. I try to cultivate more times when I am thinking about nothing. it makes all the somethings actually mean something.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Squish the "a" over and make it atypical and now we're talkin!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip cookies is the main reason I have trust issues.
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