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AvadaKadavra87

22 / F / gay / Single

Greensboro, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am a loyal, passionate, and spiritual being.

My Self-Summary

I like office supplies, books, pens, and computers. I could spend hours in an Office Depot or a Staples... or any other store that sells any of the above mentioned. I can get easily distracted. I love to write poetry. I kinda like writing short stories and prose. I like writing essays for some reason and putting things together. It is a silly goal of mine to locate a red Swingline stapler like the one in "Office Space". I am constantly cleaning and organizing my notebooks, folders, my desk, my room... just about anything that I think needs some sort of structure. Right now, I think that my life is demands the most attention, so I'm always imposing some sort of rule on myself. I lack self-discipline in most cases. I don't really know what I'm serious about other than matters of the heart and love, so everything else has taken a backseat to finding true love. I firmly believe I have found it before, that I've lost it, that it will come back to me, but in the mean time I'll work on making myself a better person and lover. But besides that, I can be quite fun. I'm usually random. This paragraph was meant to be an intro, so I'm going to move on.
I'm supposedly a senior in college right now. I hope to graduate sometime in 2010. I want to go to grad school and get a Masters in something English-y, but I also don't want to be in school any more. I don't have an answer to the question 'Well what do you want to do when you graduate?' other than I don't want to teach and I don't want to work in journalism. I'll probably look into being a technical writer or an editor of something because I like proofreading and correcting things. I love literature, books, novels, poetry... anything literature related, although I seem to be a novice in the world of things that all English majors should be familiar with. I'm hoping once I finish college and can have the time to pay attention to these things that I can. College is a horrible time to grow up!
I can be very spiritual. I lean towards Wiccan/pagan teachings, with a heavy focus on anything that can be viewed as goddess spirituality. As college has also taken away the time I'd like to spend on this I don't have a lot of formed thought on this. I know if I was to get into a discussion about it, I'd be able to say something. But as for popping out an essay or how I really feel, I can't do it right now. I do tend to have a lot of thoughts politically and religiously that can be taken as "wrong", but again, since I haven't taken a lot of time to form them in my head into some structured thought I will not touch upon them now. I like having religious talks, although I can get carried away some times. This is a part of me that I'm still afraid to explore, so I usually won't mention this fact. But I'm working on being proud of who I really am.
Relationship wise, I'm looking for someone that I can see myself being with for a while. At least six months or more. Someone who is loyal, honest,isn't afraid to do their own thing, won't cling, open, loving, compassionate, accepting of different spirituality, not afraid to try new things. I'm also looking for a girl that is an excellent vegetarian cook. Not that I'm hard-core vegetarian or anything, but I think sometimes all I need is a girl that can bring me around the last corner. I'm the kind of person that would lavish a girl in whatever she may need, as long as it isn't something like tons of money, material possessions, etc etc. I think the ideas of women having a life-long lesbian partner are just romantic and wish I could meet one myself.
I really think this is all that I can think to say about me right now. I'm constantly reinventing myself and evolving, so these summaries on social networks usually change. They either get deleted altogether, changed, or just rewritten. But I think this one is pretty concise. The only real way to get to know me is to talk to me, so feel free to message me.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm at UNCG studying English with no real goals after that yet. There's a plan in the works, but it's not official or anything yet. For now, I'm just trying to get everything back together after nearly sleeping through an entire year. And I mean this figuratively.

I’m really good at

Writing, reading, hiking, meeting new people, hanging out, talking, texting, drawing, cleaning, using computers and the internets, useless knowledge,

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know. Take a look and you tell me what it is that attracts your eyes first.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books I've read and liked:
Northanger Abbey
Tipping the Velvet
The Phantom Tollbooth
The Lake of Dead Languages
The Drowning Tree
Pride and Prejudice and Zombies
The Bell Jar
The Collected Poems of Sylvia Plath
The Collected Poems of Anne Sexton
Vile Bodies
The Spiral Dance
The Secret
The Collected Poems of H.D.

Book topics that I constantly check out from the library:
Lesbianism (I'm reading one right now called "Dyke Life" that is really good)
Feminist spirituality
Sexuality
Goddess spirituality
Witchcraft
Feminist literary criticisim

Movies:
Hook
Hot Fuzz
Frida
Rock'n'Rolla
District 9
The Crow
Iron Man
Hamlet (w/ Kenneth Branagh)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
The Phantom of the Opera

Music:
I mostly stick with heavy metal, alt rock, gothic, and other eclectic tastes. My favorite band of all time is Incubus. I utterly dislike rap, r&b, hip-hop, country, most pop music, and most things that you will hear if you turn on something other than a satellite radio. It's not that I'm closed minded, I just hear this stuff too much to justify myself listening to it. My channels on Pandora range from jazz to metal to new age and so on. I'm usually about 10 years behind the crowd, and I'm pretty fond of 90's stuff.

Food:
Spinach and mushroom alfredo pizza
Caffeine-free Pepsi
Omelets (usually ones with spinach, mushrooms, onions, and peppers)
Most veggies
Sugar-snap peas

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The universe, books, literature, writing, religions, time, psychology, love, what tomorrow will bring, how much school work I've got to do, finding my perfect girl,

On a typical Friday night I am

Reading, writing, or spending time with a few close friends. The last one is rare though. I'm typically on the internet or somewhere around campus.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have an obsession with panties

You should message me if

You DO NOT have a photo on your profile that will make me call into question your ability to pick up a room!!! This drives me crazy to no end!
You DO NOT talk in chat-speak. I will either ignore you or lecture you on correct grammar.
You DO use correct grammar.
You're looking for a new friend and think I could possibly fill those shoes...