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AvecLaLumiere

29 F Westborough, MA

My Details

Last Online
Sep 5, 2004
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There is so much about me I want to share, and I could easily write a book on my life. I might do that some day, too. However, it's hard to sum up a lot of it without giving the background stories. My existence has been far from boring, but it may be too dramatic, too intense for a lot of people. I'm afraid to write an over-abundance, but I suppose I'll share some important things about myself.

Honestly, I seem to fascinate people in many different ways. For example, a good friend once told me my life was like a soap opera on crack. I think "on hallucinogens" is probably more accurate, though. I am extremely open about my past and my present, and it most likely scares people because they're not used to others being so willing to tell them their trials and tribulations.

I'm a nerd and proud of it. Here are some of my "qualifications": I love science fiction, especially Star Trek: Voyager, Star Wars, and Stargate SG-1/Atlantis. I also enjoy the Lord of the Rings...but I never really understood why that's often considered nerdy. I was part of a Star Wars role playing game, and I wish to participate in more in the future. I like anime, computers, and books. I like to study philosophy and religion in my spare time. Oh, and here's the kicker: As for the religion I have adopted...well, I'm a Jedi. A Light Jedi to be more specific. And just to clarify, Jediism has more to it than what the movies portray.

Some of my favorites:

Genres of music - Techno and Hard Rock

Movies - A Beautiful Mind, K-PAX, Gattaca, Run Lola Run, Am�lie, Better Than Chocolate, Girl Interrupted

Foods - Pasta with marinara sauce, grilled chicken caesar salad

Beverages - Mountain Dew, cranberry juice, lemonade

Books - Anthem by Ayn Rand, The Parable of the Talents & The Parable of the Sower by Octavia E. Butler, Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

Actor - Kevin Spacey

Actresses - Kira Knightly, Liv Tyler

Restaurant - Olive Garden

Fast Food Places - Wendy's, Subway

Color - Green

Quotes - "I'm not trying to kill myself. I'm trying to see if I'm still alive." ~B'Elanna Torres, STVOY "Ford, you're turning into a penguin. Stop it." ~ Arthur, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

Clothing Styles - Vintage, clean/sleek/sophisticated

I am open-minded, respectful, and genuine

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a lot lately as a security guard. I want to major in linguistics.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, writing, speaking French, mediating (you know...helping people to get along better).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What I look like. Duh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've listed all those already in the first section.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Things...as in material possessions? If that's the case, then:

1) My glasses...'cause I like to see. Seeing is good. 2) Books. I'm counting all of them as one thing. :) 3) An automobile because I'm not willing to walk everywhere, especially when it's state-to-state travel or something. 4) Clothes. For legal purposes. 5) Modern technology (Don't you love how I group lots of items into one thing?) 6) Nutritional nourishment. Mmmmm...living.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(In no particular order) religion, philosophy, my bf Kyle, languages, memories.

LOL! Funny how I make the following comment, and the question magically CHANGES! "I like the grey, lumpy mass I already have in my skull, thank you very much. (Note: I've been told this basic idea of wanting to keep one's own brain is a rather common concept in these profiles. This leads me to wonder why the prompt is still there.)"

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping because I have to wake up at 6 the next morning to go to work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
So many things I'm willing to admit... Wow. But okay. I've been in a psychiatric hospital six times within the past three years or so...and that's as a patient, not a visitor/worker.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not already afraid of me.