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24 M Cape Town, South Africa

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly other
When drinking
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
2 + 2 = Mount Rushmore

Sometimes we become so obsessed with thinking and observing everything around us, trying to know everything and being invoved everywhere, we forget that this is all just our representation of what we experience around us using our senses. So few of us actually take the time for introspection, to eclude ourselves from our surroundings and involvemensts and focus on who we are.

What we are left with is a collection of feelings, impulses, morals, mannerisms, life lessons.... you get the idea. These things are essentially the make up of what you are and, more importantly, who you are as a sentient self aware organism. So with that in mind, here's the person that I am.

Smile Easy. That's a little thing I let slip in conversations. I believe a single smile has the ability to chance someone's day. And it's to easy to smile, so why aren't we all doing it? If you can't think of anything to smile about then I would reccomend you reevaluate your life.
Moving on...
I prefer to stay leavel headed, calm, cool and collected at all times. Becoming overly emotional, stressing out, being paranoid and fearing things literally impairs your cognitive ability. Yes it makes you dumb. Ever hit the wall out of anger and after a while you realise how stupid it was?
I was taught this when I was 4 years old by my first jiu-jitsu instructor and it has stuck with me. Since then I've applied it to every aspect of my life.
I'm inquisitive. If I don't know something, find something curious or doubt something, I will probably research it to get a better understanding of it. I strive to understand everything that has or could have an influence on my life.
I'm a pacifist. Violence offers very little solutions to problems and I deem it completely unnecessary. I will however effectively defend myself and my friends if the treat persists.
I follow a strict code of conduct. That's where manners, language, etiquette and social behaviour come in. Please and thank you, if you're still not sure.

...I'll stop here for now but you get the picture.
So all that's left is a description of me. Well I'm quite, but not so quite tall, with an athletic build. I keep my hair (brown) short and neat and my facial hair well groomed. I have a smart sense of fashion, preferring to wear body fitting clothing and I don't give a crap about brand names or trends. Brown/green eyes and some freckles.

And that's all I have to say about that.
What I’m doing with my life
I work, but I'm not here to talk business

After hours I spend my free time training and teaching MMA/jiu-jitsu, and gymming respectively.
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind to, I do not like failing, and if I do, I make sure I learn from it.
This would include my sport (MMA/Jiu-Jitsu), gaming, house parties, mixing cocktails, cooking and just about any challenge that finds itself in my way
The first things people usually notice about me
My loud basso voice and sunny disposition
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything written by Neal Stephenson or Larry Niven. I tend to stick with the hard science fiction genre.
Movies: like my books, I prefer sci-fi
Shows: I don' have much time for TV
Music: I can't live without good music, I enjoy mostly anything made by real instuments. Anything from the 60s till today, from Beatles to Metallica, Blues to Folk rock. I hate Pop, R&B and hippop. My favorite song at the moment is Ball and Biscuit - The White Stripes
Food: I Have a very strict and healthy diet. On off days I enjoy sushi, any meat off the bone, my mother's spaghetti, new and rich flavours without an excess of oil and cheese. Strickly no fast food
The six things I could never do without
This is a ridiculous question. Aside from the basic necessities a human needs to survive, here's my "6 Things that makes my world a better place"

Rigorous exercise (I love Jitsu)
Communication (like talking to someone face to face)
Lots of sleep
Beer (beer + fruit juice = beermosa)
Music (I want to feel the rock under my skin)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why don't you ask me what I'm thinking about. My mind is a blender of great ideas, dumb ideas, song lyrics, short stories, daily schedules, work planning, jiu-jitsu techniques, movie scenes, past arguments... you get the idea.

So if you want to message me and don't k ow what to say, this is where you can start.
On a typical Friday night I am
Start my weekend off with a rolling session (jiu jitsu sparring) after that it's either going out with my friends, having a braai, clubbing or just chilling. I'm a ver spontaneous person so if have nothing planned I will do the first fun thing that comes to mind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have to shave my chest so I don't look like a gorilla
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
In this column I will take the liberty to justify the above selected "what I'm looking for" choices.

*For new friends:
This one is quite clear actually. I have long standing platonic relationships with a few ladies I conciser my closest friends and I conciser myself lucky to to be in this position. So If you've read my profile and saw a friend in there, then don't hesitate to contact me.

*Short term dating:
There's no clear explanation to what Short term dating is, but to my understanding, it is as follows: We go on a date have fun and, if the feeling is mutual, we do it again. If it doesn't work out the way we had planned, see *For new friends. I'f it does work out, we decide what to do from there.

*Casual sex:
Before you fall off your rocker, let me explain first.
I don't just sleep with any girl that shows interest in me! Like any relationship, this one must consist of trust and a mutual understanding.

*Long term dating:
I've never really had a long term relationship with anyone but it has been a secret desire of mine for many years. I regard this relationship as unbreakable. This choice will only be made If we are so utterly compatible that I will have no choice but to hold on to you and never let go.

Other than that. Please don't send me a message containing only "Hi' or "Hello".