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18 Washington, DC Genderqueer


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 9:19pm
Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Trying to quit
Working on university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is Avonlea. Pronouns are they/their/them.
I'm a student of sociology, photography, literature, and basically everything.
I enjoy attempting to perform activities that I'm not particularly skilled at, including playing guitar, painting, baking, and interacting with other humans. I tried being a dirty punk, but I'm overcoming a shameful addiction to daily warm showers and the scent of patchouli. So for now, I'm just a punk.
What I’m doing with my life
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This question plagues me every day.

Right now? Selling my soul to the formal education system and racking up thousands of dollars worth of student loan debt.

In the future? I can't say that I know anymore. All I know is that there are many things still wrong with the world, and that I am still in the process of figuring out the best way to help fix them. I am very much an idealist, and I believe that we will ultimately evolve to a point where oppression in all its forms will be eliminated; and I intend to dedicate my life to discovering how to expedite that evolution. Ask me this again in twenty years--I will have either found the answer, died trying, or given up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My excessive piercings, my short stature, and my limitless energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Mostly politics, philosophy, and poetry. Nietzsche, Kropotkin, Goldman, Marx, Emerson, Orwell, Ginsberg, Blake, Whitman, Vonnegut, Kerouac, Kesey, Thoreau, Camus, Foucault, Bakunin, Sexton, Hunter Thompson, Wendell Berry, Sherman Alexie and dozens of others. I'm quite the bibliophile, and I'll take an instant liking to you if you are as well.

Music: Punk, folk, literally anything from the 60s. But my taste is pretty eclectic. I can get down to pretty much anything given the right context. Same goes for films (the worst movies tend to make the best drinking games).

Food: A minimum of three cups of coffee daily is typically a necessity. I follow a freegan diet, which means I abstain from animal products unless they would otherwise go to waste. I understand that certain geographical and financial privileges are required to be vegan, so I try my best not to condemn those who aren't.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When school is in session:
Reading in silent solitude by the purple Christmas lights that illuminate my dorm room.

Futilely looking for trouble in the quaint, boring town of Great Barrington.

Almost causing accidental forest fires (which wouldn't be such a tragedy, considering the great excess of forest we have here).

When I travel back to DC:
Getting drunk and fucking shit up

Dying because I am neither getting drunk nor fucking any shit up
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing is too private for me. Ask me anything, and I shall give you an honest response.
You should message me if
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-You are Jesus.
-You are Satan.

I'm NOT interested if
-You're even the slightest bit racist, sexist, cissexist, homophobic, nationalistic, speciesist, or religiously bigoted
-You lack the decency to not introduce yourself by asking to fuck me. Even though my profile says I'm looking for casual sex, I'm not willing to have sex with just anyone. Let's get to know each other a bit first, yeah?