Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I try to have honor and courage. I try to have awareness of my
failings and to live honestly.
"The one permanent emotion of the inferior man is fear - fear of
the unknown, the complex, the inexplicable. What he wants above
everything else is safety."
H. L. Mencken
“To be, or not to be: that is the question: Whether ’tis nobler in
the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, or
to take arms against a sea of troubles … ” William Shakespeare
What I’m doing with my life
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When i'm not working my 40 hour a week job at the call center i'm
drinking, playing Football Manager, creating music and art, hanging
out with friends, reading, listening to comedy, podcasts, and
music. I rarely watch TV so please have other things to talk about
than Walking Dead or Orange Is The New Black.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm getting better at music.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I rarely watch TV unless its the news (which is more for disaster
porn than actual learning, for that I turn to the internet
naturally) or Adult Swim.
Usually i'm listening to comedy, music, podcasts, or watching
documentaries concerning art, culture, or history. I listen to Doug
Stanhope's podcast, Joe Rogan Experience, Duncan Trussell Family
Hour, Hardcore History, lectures by Alan Watts, Terrence McKenna,
and so on. I love soccer and watch copious amounts of highlights
and matches on youtube.
I recommend Paul Goodman a great thinker on education from the
middle of the 20th century. Alan Watts introduced me to eastern
philosophy and his son put all his lectures on youtube for free.
I'm not an absurdist, I take life too seriously at times. Kurt
Vonnegut and Charles Bukowski are my favorite authors but i'm not a
big fiction reader. George Orwell. H.L Mencken
There's too much music for me to type up here. I like surf and
garage, punk, hip hop, lo fiwave, noise, experimental, i'm not
focused with any one category of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my macbook pro with logic, moderate drug use excluding heroin and
dirty chemicals. I'm smoking cannabis 98% of the time with the
occasional MDMA or psychedelic experience. Sunny days and beautiful
laughs. Charismatic rebels midst a cosmic panic. Honor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making money, improving on my music, finding fun things to do in my
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
See "What I'm Doing With My Life".
You should message me if
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You possess a balance of masculine and feminine energy. If you
searching for love and have a strong moral character without
relying on religion and systems. I like individualism as opposed to
tribalism. If you have honest interactions with your friends and
family meaning you don't ignore when they're acting amorally or
making poor decisions.
I like direct people who won't waste my time. I'm 5,8 and 140
pounds. I have nice teeth even though i'm not smiling in any my
pictures. I sometimes wear glasses if not contact lenses and wear
skinny jeans. I'm awful at taking selfies so I can never get a full
length body pic but i'm sure if I give it like 10 minutes I could
balance the phone well enough to show you my full body which you're
perfectly entitled to request.
If you don't take yourself too seriously.
I think that women on average tend be more practical and realistic
maybe because they've always had to be while men have historically
have more room to be irrational and dream big for better or worse.
This is all changing in the past century or so. I admire the
feminine energy which anybody can possess because it is the key to
creating beauty in the world and its freeing to be in touch with
your emotions. Not necessarily in a whiny annoying way but just in
a practical balanced way. I admire the masculine energy which
anybody can possess because it allows us the room to break out of
our cynicism and be able to dream and aspire toward progress. This
is a very simple expression of a more complicated viewpoint which I
would love to discuss with you. I've read some feminist literature
although I find it mostly full of resentment and hate at times.
Vivian Gornick is a keen observer of post-industrial society
although she too falls into the trap of dismissing the aspirations
and experiences of men. I recommend H.L. Mencken's "In Defense Of
Women" for a unique view of women from the standpoint of one of my
favorite writers and thinkers who happens to be a male.
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