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Last online
Today – 3:25pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Greetings and salutations, my name is James, but please, call me Jay.

I'm 26, I'm a massive geek when it comes to video games, i love all things Japan and I love comics and whatnot.
I'm overweight. I'm short, I smoke (planning on quitting next year) I 'smoke' every now and then. I'm also tremendously shy but I'm working on that with the help of this place and each message I sent.

I've been seeing a lot of user say what they are on the MBTI scale, and never one to not fill in a personality test, it turns out I'm ISTJ.....whatever that it :P

I know I'm not exactly the dictionary definition of the ideal man with my height and weight. But what I lack in height and erm...don't lack in weight I make up for with my sense of humor and my desire to be a good person.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and nothing else.

I work as a video game tester for a large company. I work 4 days a week, with 4 days off, leaving me with four straight days of sitting playing games seeing friends and browsing here.

I really want to get back to studying Japanese, but I just haven't been able to find the motivation, I've been at the same level for over 10 years now, I know many works, and can read a bit of the writing, but I want to do more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A life of sitting in the house not having girlfriends and stuff has left me with above average skills at video games. I know, it's pretty sexy, but please. Contain yourselves, it's not all fun and games, although it has given me exceptional finger strength.
I know many obscure and pointless facts about games and gaming in general, again. Not really relevant in usual day to day life, but it is what it is.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the fact I'm really short.
Although right now, it's probably my beard. I've been really lazy with it, so it's overgrown, scraggly and rather annoyingly ginger (not that gingerness is a bad thing, I'm just confused by it due to having brown hair.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let's see. I don't do too much reading anymore, but I have several favorite books.
All of Dave Gorman and Danny Wallace's books. I absolutely adore the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy. The Kingkiller Chronicles by Patrick Rothfuss is a great series (cannot wait for book 3)

I have a hard time thinking of any favorite movies, I just love films in general. Edgar Wright and Simon Pegg's Three Flavour Cornetto trilogy is a particular favorite though.

TV is something I don't watch as much as I'd like anymore. But I do have some favorites.
I've just watched the first series of Breaking Bad and really enjoyed that. I love South Park, and a lot of old school British comedy, ranging from Blackadder and Red Dwarf, to Spaced and Black Books.
One thing that is new, is that I've just started watching Doctor Who....and I'm loving it. (Watching as I type actually, figured it was a good time to get into it what with a new Doctor coming and what not (ironic actually as the episode I'm watching has a pre-Doctor Peter Capaldi as a side character))

I'm still a bit of a kid inside, so I still watch things like Wrestling and Power Rangers and it's Japanese equivalents.)

I love me some anime, so I watch a bit of that (although not as much as I'd like any more)
Current favourites are Sword Art Online and Attack on Titan (Survey Corps, Liverpool Division represent!)
Older favourites include stuff like, Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Dragonball, .hack//SIGN, Excel Saga, Death Note and a hell of a lot more, I'd love to talk over this with someone if anyone's interested.

Music well, I'll listen to pretty much damn near anything as long as the tune is good. Although the thing I listen to the most at the minute is Video game soundtracks, or anime themes.

As they are a really big deal to me, I'll talk a little about games.
I love Nintendo. In particular the Legend of Zelda series, so much so, I have 2 Zelda tattoos.
But in general, I'll play anything to some extent. Don't really like shooters any more, and I've never liked Tower Defence or RTS. But I am willing to give anything a try.

Major favourites are anything Pokemon, I love the Ace Attorney series, Kingdom Hearts, fighting games like Street Fighter. Again, I'd love to talk games with people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family. Probably a very generic answer, but after losing my mum and dad last year, my brothers and sister and their families mean everything to me right now.

2. Friends. After the last couple of years of dealing with death and depression, I came to realize that I have some really great friends, and I wouldn't want to lose any of them.

3. The Internet. When I'm not at work, I'm usually sat on the computer, YouTube has gotten me out of so many miserable nights.

4. Video Games. Pretty much my passion in life, so I really don't know what I'd do without them.

5. My bed. I love sleep, and I've recently learned that I really enjoy sleeping next to someone else. It really relaxed me and made me feel...I dunno. Normal.

6. Companionship. This is a big one. I've gotten so lonely lately that I really wish I just had someone to share my life with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How crappy the last couple of years of my life have been. How much I wish I had someone to love. How much 2014 is going to be a better year for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Due to my work pattern, I don't have a typical Friday night. But if I did, it'd be sat in the house, playing games and on the internet or occasionally seeing friends for much of the same.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmmm, I don't really know, I got really drunk the first time I was in Japan and ended up singing karaoke with random Japanese men.
You should message me if
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You are even remotely interested in what I've written here. You think I might be someone you could love. Or if you just want someone to talk to. I'm good at listening.
Or if you want to be one of the rare people who might find me interesting enough to actually talk to me.
If you don't want to talk here, I have many different outlets in which to talk.

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