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35 M Phoenix, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OKCupid’s personality tests summarize me as a robotic slow dancer who is a devoted lover of the girl next door. The expensive personality test work made me take lists me as an INFJ. A rare breed of mysterious deep thinkers looking to make the world a better place; yet, we are private and sensitive. Perhaps my vacant middle-distant stare could be misconstrued as stand-offish; I call is poise.

My take on myself: Just a really nice guy.

One thing I do know is that I can’t stay cooped up for long and let my hypos get such an upper hand of me. That feeling is often met with a primal scream and an adventure out into the wilderness. In the end, nothing beats fresh air. I thrive off open space.

So, since this whole online dating thing is a poor medium for chance conversation, I’ll put this icebreaker out there: Where is your happiest place on earth?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One of my favorite authors wrote, “Your work should be an act of love, not a marriage of convenience.” I'm still trying to achieve this goal, but my recent career arc has me set on a good path. I was in healthcare publishing for eight years, graduated a little while ago with a Master of Public Health, and now work at a firm that improves the quality of healthcare throughout Arizona. Good times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, editing, research, Dots, finding things to watch on Netflix, driving, hiking, preparing for things, breathing air, understanding complex systems, empathy, sarcasm, making a water-dripping sound with my cheek, keeping my cat healthy, and so on.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My calm demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Glory, High Fidelity, Office Space, Shaun of the Dead, etc.

Authors: Cormac McCarthy, Haruki Murakami, Herman Mellville, Gore Vidal, Bret Easton Ellis, Herman Hesse, George Orwell, Flannery O'Conner, Howard Zinn, Harper Lee, etc.

Music: Modest Mouse, Arcade Fire, Radiohead, Black Keys, most classic rock, Ed Sharpe, Explosions in the Sky, Interpol, Johnny Cash, Mars Volta, Radical Face, This Will Destroy You, etc.

TV Shows: Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Lost, NOVA, Mad Men, Friday Night Lights, Portlandia, Chapelle's Show, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much to list, so here is a joke from Mitch Hedberg: "I was walking down the street with my friend and he said, 'I hear music.' As if there is any other way you can take it in. You're not special; that's how I receive it too. I tried to taste it, but it did not work."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't grow a beard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to swap stories over a drink downtown or a coffee at Lux. Or whatever else.