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24 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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  • Ages 18–40
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My details

Last online
Dec 31, 2014
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Make sure to read the "You should message me if" section before messaging me, please!

I'm geeky, goth, pagan, hard-femme, queer, and sapiosexual. I am also in a polyamorous relationship with StephanieMac and KinseyPi. Compersion is a big thing for me, as is the care I have for my metamours.

I have a genetic joint disorder called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and walk with a cane. More information can be found via a quick Google search. Spoon theory is also a great blog post on disability that I recommend!

I am kinky, and identify as a submissive. I'm also into bondage, impact play, and kitten pet-play. That being said, outside of play I am a very independent woman and until I have consented on a dynamic I expect to be treated with respect. That also means no pet names or explicitly sexual messages from strangers. I will happily answer respectful questions about kink, but I don't write porn for free.

I also work as an adult model and professional submissive. I've done and am available for alternative photography, nude photography, fetish photography, pornography (mainly BDSM-related), life modelling, and live performances. Anyone wishing to hire me as a model will have to provide a portfolio and have references available. For my submissive work, I provide many BDSM services, but I am not full service. Booking is based on per-client compatibility. Currently modelling but not taking in-calls due to the legal climate around Bill C36. I don't want to put good clients or myself at risk.

I do play with others, in my professional and private lives, though I prefer to be friends with people before I date them, and I require in-depth negotiation before I will book with a client.

I'm a solitary eclectic Wiccan-ish Luciferian. My rituals are spontaneous and heartfelt and not at all on a regular basis. My religion is very cerebral, internal, day to day focused, and not something I'd want to share with a Coven or Circle, but I'm glad to discuss things one on one.

For more of me, see my Twitter (@HellcatAzura), Fetlife profile (, or Facebook profile ( Photographers, videographers, or pornographers wanting to book with me can contact me via
What I’m doing with my life
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Spending time making money from my sexuality through filming, photos, and in-call clients. I'm also enjoying time with friends and partners, or just on my own with my mind for company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cuddles, puzzles/sudoku, pushing myself, anything rope related, and standing up for myself and those I care for.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My wool cloak, my big boots, something else I'm wearing, or my cane. If I'm at a party, it's probably my ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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None of these lists are really exhaustive.

Favourite books: Wheel Of Time, Harry Potter, Necroscope, The Ethical Slut, Kiln People, Otherland, Rainbow Mars, Gospel Of Filth, Hunger Games, Pendragon, Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy, the works of Edgar Allan Poe, and anything by Clive Barker (Cabal is the best :D).

Favourite movies: Cabin In The Woods, Nightmare Before Christmas, Paranormal Activity, Serenity, Shaun Of The Dead, The Orphan, Corpse Bride, Twister, Dawn Of The Dead, Underworld, Ginger Snaps, Coraline, Sweeney Todd, Zombieland, eXistenZ, Ten Inch Hero, Inception, Princess Bride, SuckerPunch, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Wreck It Ralph, Behind The Mask: The Rise Of Leslie Vernon, Tucker And Dale Versus Evil, The Woman In Black, A Knight's Tale, Death At A Funeral (English Version), Robin Hood: Men In Tights, Brave.

Favourite TV Shows: Supernatural, Criminal Minds, Firefly, Stargate SG1, Doctor Who, Lost Girl, Mistfits, The Listener, The Daily Show, Marble Hornets (a web series, but it doesn't really fit anywhere else).

Music: Evanescence, Cradle Of Filth, Tea Party, Within Temptation, Rasputina, Rob Zombie, Nine Inch Nails, ICP (don't judge, I think they're funny), Godsmack, Porcelain And The Tramps, BlutEngel, various classical.

Video Games: Zelda, The Elder Scrolls, Portal, Amnesia, Slender, Penumbra, Dragon Age Origins, System Shock 2, Cryostasis, Eternal Darkness, Call Of Cthulhu, Knights Of The Old Republic, Minecraft, Assassin's Creed, Little Inferno, Halo 1, Alice: Madness Returns, Super Mario 64, Bioshock.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, nature, my self-respect, my stuffed animals, the internet, and my loved ones. Oh, and rope! (I know that's seven, but screw the rules!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, philosophy, my partners, my sister, video games, sex/kink or my religious beliefs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working, having a casual night in on the computer, or doing something ropey, either at home or at a local event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm diagnosed with major depression and used to be suicidal and cut myself. I was abused as a child, but my mother and I are now in a much better place and I've forgiven her. I've worked hard to get myself to a very healthy place! That said, I have major triggers around child abuse and would appreciate not being sent videos/pictures or explicit descriptions of abuse.
You should message me if
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You're smart, have some similar interests, are comfortable with polyamory and kink, are pro-equality, tolerant, and have a sense of humour. I really do love intelligent conversations with people, despite the rules below. I just unfortunately get a lot of stupid stuff in my inbox, which is annoying. I am especially interested in women or vaguely hard-femme type people of any genital configuration who are Dominants or Tops to play with as friends.

Rules for messaging me:
- I don't respond to messages that consist of "hi" or "how are you". If you want a conversation, initiate one, because zero effort isn't sexy. I'm more lenient with instant messages, but it better go somewhere because a bored Azura is a gone Azura.
- I prefer messages that are legible. Spelling mistakes are understandable, but I don't enjoy translating an entire message.
- If you want to play with me, I only play with friends or paying clients. Put in the effort to earn my trust, and if the chemistry is there I may consider it. Nothing is guaranteed, but I'm generally pretty open with my friends.
- I do not like pet names from strangers, and I don't write porn for free.
- I consider the terms "friend zone" or "nice guy" to be warning signs, as will many women. Also, see this comic: