I'm going to try to say as little about myself here as possible.
But first a couple of ground rules:
1. Do NOT contact me if Gwyneth Paltrow has convinced you to steam
your vagina. (Google it.)
2. If you've just cooked chicken wrapped in bacon and this is as
close as you're ever going to get to being a vegan, then you've
been waiting WAY too long to contact me already and you should do
Born and raised in Chicago, USA but I've spent half my life in
Europe. I've changed quite a bit since moving here, but I'm always
getting better. Rugged, adaptable, sexualized-intellectual. I'm
also in incredible shape!
What I’m doing with my life
Photographer. Author. Singer. Musician. And (former) CTO of a web
company in Barcelona.
Just moved myself, my photo equipment, and my cat to Berlin. My
favorite photographers are Halsman, Delacroix, and Clark. (Or if
you want contemporary: Eugenio Recuencuo). My favorite writers are
Balzac and Vargas Llosa. My favorite directors are John Huston and
The rest of the inspiration comes from my own eyes and ears.
I’m really good at
Massage. I was about two weeks away from a degree a license in
massage therapy. I have a photographic memory, and I'm naturally
gifted in cryptography and computers. I'm also told that I'm a good
cook and a talented poet and novelist. And a very, very, fast
The first things people usually notice about me
Someone just told me they were walking by and weren't sure it was
me... until they heard my laugh.
I'm also known for my smile... and my cat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: La Tia Julia y el escribador. Movie: The Malteese Falcon.
Show: The Honeymooners/The Untouchables, Music: Rock, Folk, and
Jazz. Food: Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Juice. Sex. Cheese. Sandwiches. Comedy. Stories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being a creative individual is an extremely challenging thing. The
forces that give you your abilities can also destroy you. (It's
amazing any artist ever survives high school.) That said I spend a
lot of my brain power just on focusing my energy and keeping myself
relaxed. I read a lot... and I try to remember to listen to
I used to think about sex a lot, but I've discovered that the less
you think about sex the more people begin to think you're
So now I spend more time thinking about the present. I also like
staring at my cat and wondering what he's thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I had something to do on a Friday night I would ABSOLUTELY not
be on this site. I get invited to parties every now and then.
Sometimes I have my own. But I really don't know what to do... by
myself... on a Friday night. Give me one other person and suddenly
I can see a world of options.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm nice... but I'm not SO nice that I wouldn't go down on you in a
public park. People meet me and think "He would make a really good
friend..." I would... but I would make an even better lover and an
I'm stronger... smarter... and more talented than your ex was
and... what's more... I'm a better person. (And I'm modest.)
You should message me if
I am ABSOLUTELY not looking for friends. Ok... correction... I'm
not looking for friends on a dating site. I know lots of people are
for some really weird reason... I am not among them.
So you should contact me if you're interested in someone who's
time-consuming, and has an addictive laugh.
1. You have enough time to actually spend time with someone.
2. You're short on time, but don't mind having an intense sexual
1. You want a deep, meaningful relationship but you don't actually
have time for it.
2. You want to fall in love instantly and expect it to last forever
without any actual effort.