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BCNChicago

36 M Berlin, Germany

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello in German! (Don't really know how to say that... but HEY! I'm here to learn.) Born and raised in Chicago, USA but I've spent half my life in Europe.

Ok. I came to Berlin March 7th-10th to visit. But I've loved it so much I think I decided to move here. It would be a great place to work on my book and my photography and get to know some interesting people. Rugged, adaptable, sexualized-intellectual. I'm also in incredible shape!
What I’m doing with my life
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Photographer. Author. Singer. Musician. And (former) CTO of a web company in Barcelona.

Just moved myself, my photo equipment, and my cat to Berlin. My favorite photographers are Halsman, Delacroix, and Clark. (Or if you want contemporary: Eugenio Recuencuo). My favorite writers are Balzac and Vargas Llosa. My favorite directors are John Huston and Stanley Kubrick.

The rest of the inspiration comes from my own eyes and ears.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage. I was about two weeks away from a degree a license in massage therapy. I have a photographic memory, and I'm naturally gifted in cryptography and computers. I'm also told that I'm a good cook and a talented poet and novelist. And a very, very, fast runner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Someone just told me they were walking by and weren't sure it was me... until they heard my laugh.

I'm also known for my smile... and my cat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: La Tia Julia y el escribador. Movie: The Malteese Falcon. Show: The Honeymooners/The Untouchables, Music: Rock, Folk, and Jazz. Food: Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Juice. Sex. Cheese. Sandwiches. Comedy. Stories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being a creative individual is an extremely challenging thing. The forces that give you your abilities can also destroy you. (It's amazing any artist ever survives high school.) That said I spend a lot of my brain power just on focusing my energy and keeping myself relaxed. I read a lot... and I try to remember to listen to music.

I used to think about sex a lot, but I've discovered that the less you think about sex the more people begin to think you're sexy.

So now I spend more time thinking about the present. I also like staring at my cat and wondering what he's thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I had something to do on a Friday night I would ABSOLUTELY not be on this site. I get invited to parties every now and then. Sometimes I have my own. But I really don't know what to do... by myself... on a Friday night. Give me one other person and suddenly I can see a world of options.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm nice... but I'm not SO nice that I wouldn't go down on you in a public park. People meet me and think "He would make a really good friend..." I would... but I would make an even better lover and an exemplary boyfriend.

I'm stronger... smarter... and more talented than your ex was and... what's more... I'm a better person. (And I'm modest.)
You should message me if
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I am ABSOLUTELY not looking for friends. Ok... correction... I'm not looking for friends on a dating site. I know lots of people are for some really weird reason... I am not among them.

So you should contact me if you're interested in someone who's time-consuming, and has an addictive laugh.

Good combinations:
1. You have enough time to actually spend time with someone.
2. You're short on time, but don't mind having an intense sexual experience.

BAD combinations:
1. You want a deep, meaningful relationship but you don't actually have time for it.
2. You want to fall in love instantly and expect it to last forever without any actual effort.