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BCop

43 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:26pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writer, dad, beard-grower. I live easy in the world and don't let too many things get to me. But I have known love, felt it swell in my chest and burn in my eyes.

What I'm looking for is hard to describe — I'll know it when I find it. Somebody who makes me laugh, makes me think, who's maybe a little mysterious. Most of all I want to be inspired.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make a living with words, wit and ideas. Looking for a few sublime moments in every day - sipping a well-made cup of coffee, sharing a knowing smile with a stranger, biting into an agreeable meal, relaxing with a nice glass of wine. I figure if you can find the joy in moments like that, you're gonna be alright.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, editing
Cooking (though I take risks which occasionally end in disaster/pizza delivery)
Coffee-making
Listening
Opening things that are really hard to open
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The funk band that follows me everywhere, playing my theme song.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Michael Chabon, Raymond Chandler, Scott Fitzgerald, Joseph Conrad
Neko Case, Radiohead, Wilco, Van Morrison, on and on.
Tacos, sushi, steak, anything
All of Hitchcock, most of the Coen Brothers and Wes Anderson
British TV, esp. mysteries
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Books
Coffee, wow
Summer nights
Windows, to gaze out of
A really knock-out multivitamin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Words
My kids
What things mean; why they matter
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fighting evil
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never admit anything. Make them prove it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart and you like lively conversation, good food, laughing a lot. And maybe you believe that there is magic in the world - not the Disney kind, but the kind that happens when you kiss the right person, hear the right song at the right moment, or read a sentence that shows you what's been hiding in your heart.