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BDV4U

46 / M / Straight / Single

Cincinnati, Ohio

His Details

Last Online
May 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Divorced dad of one (son, 11), looking to start over and have the family I always wanted. I'm never going to pay for a dating site, so you have to use my screen name and ask yourself Y!

I am weary of people that say one thing on their profile, but something else when asked, or put something on one part of their profile, then answer the questions completely the opposite of what they wrote. That rusty, little robot is already wasting enough of my time sending me profile "matches" that are nowhere compatible with what I'm looking for. It just makes good sense for BOTH of us if you're honest & upfront on your profile, as I am on mine, so we're not wasting each other's time & effort finding that person that will make us unendingly happy!

As you review my answers, you will find that I am very open-minded. Personally, I don't like how OkCupid phrases their questions. Like the Kobayashi Maru Test from Star Trek, most of these are a no-win scenario! What you will read is a blanket response, followed by a detailed explanation. As with life, there are no black & white, just shades of grey. Enjoy!

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm a youth baseball & softball umpire, doing various leagues in the Cincinnati area. Also, I'm a coach/consultant to teach kids the game properly.

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I’m really good at
a lot of things! LOL

I can create web pages, self-taught in Excel & Word and as I stated above, I have 40 years of baseball experience.

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The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly attitude.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Like most kinds of music (Christian, rock, some country).
Watch House, Hawaii Five-0, Unforgettable, Body of Proof, Bones, The Finder, Person of Interest, The Mentalist, A Gifted Man, Fringe, Blue Bloods, Merlin, among others.
Not much of a movie goer or book reader.

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The six things I could never do without
Air
Food
Water
Medication
Sleep
Electricity?

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I'm going to answer this

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On a typical Friday night I am
Watching The Finder, Fringe, Blue Bloods & Ancient Aliens

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really as nice as I claim to be.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you are not a "bot", scam artist, fake, etc., and seriously looking for a true "good guy" to spend the rest of your life with. I'm tired of cougars looking for a quick score, lame scam bots looking for an idiot to give them all their money and inconsiderate women that claim to be looking for the right guy, only to jump for looks, money and the "bad boy" that will treat them like crap!

Let's cut to the chase & just be happy for the rest of our lives, while we still have lives to be happy with!

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