I am weary of people that say one thing on their profile, but something else when asked, or put something on one part of their profile, then answer the questions completely the opposite of what they wrote. That rusty, little robot is already wasting enough of my time sending me profile "matches" that are nowhere compatible with what I'm looking for. It just makes good sense for BOTH of us if you're honest & upfront on your profile, as I am on mine, so we're not wasting each other's time & effort finding that person that will make us unendingly happy!
As you review my answers, you will find that I am very open-minded. Personally, I don't like how OkCupid phrases their questions. Like the Kobayashi Maru Test from Star Trek, most of these are a no-win scenario! What you will read is a blanket response, followed by a detailed explanation. As with life, there are no black & white, just shades of grey. Enjoy!