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BDubs456

25 M Fort Wayne, IN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:25pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My life is finally taking a slow positive turn after a few years of nothing but negatives. I'm sort of anxious to try and ride this positive turn as long as i can and see how close to where i used to be i can get.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm always working on bettering myself in some way. Most recently, that has been physically, and I've been doing fairly well at it thus far. I consult, mostly in computer-related fields. I want to go back to school eventually to get a degree in Psychology (majored in Computer Programming previously).
I’m really good at
I'm good with computers, and i'm good with people and understanding them, and helping them get through things. I'm also good with numbers and statistics. And i'm good with music. I play drums. I was a Psychology minor in school, and am thinking of switching it to my major after i get to start going again.
The first things people usually notice about me
They notice that i'm quiet and observant. Some people notice my height before anything else (for those that i've met who actually pay attention to that) others notice my shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read a particularly large amount to be honest. I'm just more entertained doing things that aren't reading. But i do read books that teach me things, or that i just find interesting. I've read a lot of books on Psychology, and a few New Age type books (styles of living, different ways to view life types of things), or books like Freakonomics.

As for movies, I'll watch almost any movie if it's with the right person/people. Horror movies are sort of...lackluster for me though. I mean, i'll watch them with someone if they want...but they just, don't amuse me at all compared to other genres. But if i had to pick a genre or two, i'd probably go with Action and Comedy (not stupid comedy like Napoleon Dynamite...ugh those bug me too...i don't want to feel like i'm losing IQ points while i watch something)

For shows, most of what I watch is online (via Netflix/Hulu type of places), but some of what I like are: Suits, Burn Notice, Scrubs, How I Met Your Mother, The West Wing, Shark Tank, House, Castle.

As for music, i sincerely enjoy almost all forms of music. It's been a big part of my life, and i've enjoyed the benefits of being a musician for years. Both in every day life (i listen to music differently than i did before i had any playing experience), conversationally being a musician gives me the ability to keep up in conversation about it with a larger spectrum of people, and because music is one of the best ways to just...feel things. There's songs about every topic possible, whether you're angry, sad, frustrated, feeling hopeless, depressed, on cloud 9, there's always songs that you can play to enhance or sometimes help remedy those feelings.

And as for food...i'm not picky about food at all really. There's a few things i just won't eat...but i don't really have a "i have to eat this food/type of food once a week or i'll be super cranky" type situation.
The six things I could never do without
I'm not terribly dependent on things, so i'll answer this as six things i use most frequently: laptop, car, keys, wallet, phone...not sure on a sixth to be honest.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My past, and what i want my future to be. And how much it sucks that so much of what i want my future to be is made up of fragments of my past that are no longer obtainable. I also think a lot about just...things that come up from something during the day. A conversation i had with a stranger while at the grocery store, or...when i'm driving and stopped at a street light, sometimes i wonder where people are going. And if i'm turning left at a stop light, i think it's awesome when blinkers are in sync with adjacent cars. I don't know...i think constantly, what it's about varies though. Sort of at least.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends playing cards. I also play a lot of pool, and i enjoy seeing movies. Sometimes i'm just at home hanging out. Friday nights don't necessarily mean anything special to me over any other night. I do stuff on any day of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That all depends on how well i know whomever wants me to admit it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're interested, that seems to be what this site is for. No reason the girl can't make the first contact, how else are us guys supposed to know you're interested? We can be pretty oblivious to signals. Ideally, people I date start out as friends, so if you want to just hangout and watch Netflix and see if we like spending time together or something, that would be pretty cool.