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I am playful, thoughtful, and up for adventures.
My Self-Summary
I just moved back to the US after four years of living and working
in Africa managing AIDS treatment programs. My goal is to keep life
as exciting and full of new experiences as it was while I was
there, and I'm looking for someone to be my partner in crimes of
hilarity and mischief.
I live with two of my best friends in our dream house with a yard
the size of a small park. It's our own little world and we love to
share it. We just moved in and we're figuring out how to organize
our ridiculous amount of tools and equipment for projects from
robot-tripods for photography to screen printing t-shirts, and our
mountain of kite surfing gear. We are unconventional when
convention gets in the way of fun, and we tend to attract people of
similar mind.
I crave new things and experiences, so I don't have a ton of
routines in life. During the season (summer), if the wind is
blowing I'm out on the water kite surfing. Thursday night is the
night to have friends over to cook, hang out, and maybe play some
games. I particularly seem to have a knack for Taboo that borders
on ESP. When i moved into my last house (a warehouse converted to
an awesome living space), the guys didn't have a stove in the
kitchen, just a hotplate. I love to cook with and for my friends,
so I converted a gas stove top to propane and installed it in a big
IKEA kitchen island so we could cook for real. Now that stove is in
our outdoor "bbq house." We made the best breakfast burritos out
there last weekend!
I think makeup belongs on actresses and the wedding party, and I
hope you do too.
Though I can certainly appreciate luxury and the finer things in
life, give me a night around a campfire in Kirby Cove looking out
at the Bay and the Golden Gate over a night at the Four Seasons.
After five months of safari through Southern Africa, I can cook
just about anything over an open fire so my friends never lack for
excellent food when we're out in the woods.
Even though I don't always get around to it, I really believe in
doing something that scares you every day. It's ok to be afraid of
things, but you can't let fear run your life. Real adventure is
being afraid but doing it anyway.
28 years of life experience unfortunately can't be squeezed into
this text box. I am looking for someone to be active with, explore
with, cook with, teach to kite surf, learn something exciting from,
and see what else the world has to offer here in the Bay Area and
beyond. Let's have a picnic and see where it goes.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I love to cook over a real wood fire, the only way they bbq (braai)
in South Africa. Bacon is the world's most perfect food. I have
been practicing Shiatsu massage for the past ten years as a hobby
and I LOVE getting a great massage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next adventure....
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with close friends, either enjoying the special
places they live (e.g. cabin in the Santa Cruz mountains) or
exploring someplace new. Some places I really love: anywhere with
redwoods; Santa Cruz; Cape Town, RSA; Kirby Cove; 3rd Ave.;
Tuolumne Meadows; the seashore; flying through the air hanging from
my kite.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I was adopted at birth by a family that was able to give me amazing
opportunities. It makes me keenly aware of how easily my life could
have turned out very differently, so I appreciate and take
advantage of everything life offers to me.
You should message me if
The number one requirement for a good match with me is a positive
attitude that sees the humor and excitement in life and appreciates
the youthful enthusiasm and wonder at the world that I have
preserved in adulthood. If you're going to be embarrassed or
annoyed when I have a break-dancing competition with my 7-year-old
nephew Mitch at my cousin's wedding and then we go outside to catch
frogs, then we probably won't get along so well. If you do the
splits in your dress and play photographer for our frog-hunt then
you'll win my heart.