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58 Encino, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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You think you know me from a couple of paragraphs, but you really don't. Spend an hour with me over lunch or coffee. That's the best way for both of us to know. The rest is pretty simple, really. More important is who I am. I'm a good person, who takes care of his family and is a loyal friend. Most of what you need to know about me is in the message that I sent to you. I have read your profile and looked at your photos, maybe scanned some of your answers to questions. Not just the sex ones. And I've taken the chance to reach out and say hello. My pictures are recent, I have my hair, most say I look better in person. I live a healthy lifestyle and work out 5 days a week. If you don't take a chance, you'll never know what we may have missed.

I grew up in the Midwest in a very small town. My family moved to CA when I was 13 years old. We settled in north San Diego county. I went to high school there and then earned my BA at UCSD. I moved to LA in the early 80's to pursue a career in music. I'm still here and still working. I have two kids. A son, 23, and a daughter who is 18. They are both in college and mostly on their own. They don't need a mom, and neither do I. But I do have time to for a relationship, and I'd like to find someone special to build a life with. I don't like starting over every few years, so I'm hoping for long term. I hope you are, too. I also know that life is what happens while you're busy making other plans, so I get it that anything can happen. I'm living that story! I tend to accept people the way that I find them. I'm not interested in changing you or being changed myself. On the other hand, I want to be the best me that I can be for my partner. The right person is a good motivator.

Thanks for reading. And good luck to all of you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just being me and enjoying the experience.
I’m really good at
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Making something out of nothing. And being there.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea. My devilish good looks? :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm pretty adventurous with food, so let's go!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bike ride, iPhone, family, coffee in the morning, my friends in the neighborhood, satisfying work, and you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This weekend, I went out to see the Fab Faux at the new performing arts center at CSUN with several friends. They are an all star Beatles tribute band from New York. It was an excellent show!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Tightie whities. There. I said it.
You should message me if
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Message me if you're in the mood to meet some one who is fun, honest, and looking for someone special. And if you like big noses and small eyes, that couldn't hurt! :-)