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BGCCGB

40 M Providence, RI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:36pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I adore masks and yet value clarity. I love gentleness and softness. Yet, I often use boa constrictor sentences to achieve this gentleness. I identify with the trickster god, yet I often see myself as hopelessly straight-laced. I revel in the eagle-eye-view, but deeply respect the worm-eye-view.

I love lighting fires on cold winter mornings. I like climbing things and climbing inside things.

I get high on energetic, impassioned conversation.

I am puzzling, palimpsestic, and poised.

I strive to be comfortable within uncertainty.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fun things!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions.

Listening carefully.

Analyzing things - literature, movies, culture, history, relationships, etc. You name it, I'll analyze it. ;-)

Being cuddly, massage, touch, dancing. When we waltz I can make you feel like you're floating.

Being a nerd...some people have an inner child; I have an inner nerd...

I will school you at Words with Friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(The first thing I had in this section WAS "My eyes", but I just read on someone else's profile that this is unoriginal, so changed it.)

Someone once said I look like Harry Potter (sans scar). I have no real clear idea as to why. (Does anyone who sees my pics think that I look remotely like their image of Harry P? 'Cause I sure as hell don't look like Daniel Radcliffe!)

I used to get, "You look like Luke Skywalker," but now that Star Wars has been ruined I don't get this much any more. :-(

I also used to get, "You look like the guy from 'Some Kind of Wonderful'".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These lists used to be really freakin' long. A friend suggested (gently) that it might be too much. So let's just say that I read A LOT. And I love talking about the books I've read.

To keep it short here are some genres: Elizabethan poetry/plays, Romantic and Victorian British Poetry and Lit, Late Nineteenth and Early Twentieth Century Literary Decadence, Modernism, some Post-Modernism (esp. metafiction and post-colonial writings, e.g. Rushdie), Foucault, Frankfurt School.

I don't own a TV, but I do have a home theater digital projector and a big screen. I watch lots of old movies. One of my current projects is to watch the 1000 greatest movies ever made. Lists are arbitrary I know, but for what it's worth here's the one I'm using: http://www.theyshootpictures.com/gf1000.htm

I started at the top of the list spring '08, and I'm up to around 300.

When I was a baby my mom would put me down for naps with classical music playing. So I fell in love with Schubert and Mozart when I was very small. Brahms, Bruckner, Mahler, and Shostakovich can bring me to tears. And I simply must go to Bayreuth one day to see Wagner performed. I love most other forms of music with varying degrees of passion.

I love most things about food. Its production, its preparation, and (most) its consumption. Was vegan for ten years, now just tend to avoid meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art, Sirsasana, Sarvangasana, My Brain, The Sun, Cereal with Coconut Milk, Bananas, Blueberries, and Raisins
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The distinctions between one's "job", "work", "career", "practice", "direction", "goals", and "project(s)".

Why I make my bed each morning, and yet some of my clothes inevitably end up in a pile in front of my closet. hmmm...

The edge/boundary between analysis and rumination. Or "creative contemplation" vs "sterile pondering".

Distinctions between creative release/permission/enjoyment and artful (self) deception.

When "challenge" is a preferable alternative to "gentleness" in an intimate relationship.

How Erich Fromm's "The Art of Loving" (or at least the Intro and first part) should be required reading for everyone looking for a romance.

How to realize "the moment" is happening when it is happening, and not 4 minutes and 33 seconds after it's over.

How to find and sustain intimacy.

Effective ways to speak/write the ineffable.

Effective ways to create systemic change.

And lots more mundane shit. I'm still trying to find my brain's off switch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying.

Flirting. Dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Growing up I wanted to be Luke Skywalker.

(I still do).

Oh, and I also secretly want to be this guy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8o3-UAsquDI
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking to find a co-conspirator.

You are interested in conversation that aims at the hearts of things.

You are interested in social/intrapersonal change projects.

You have a deep need to grab hold of this crazy-horrible-beautiful world we wake up to each day, turn it upside-down and shake it, just to see what wonderful adventures drop out.

You read poetry and occasionally enjoy using big words.

You like to "get your game on" (i.e., you enjoy playing complicated, slightly geeky board games -- Settlers, Carcassonne, Agricola, Ticket to Ride, Pandemic, etc...you get the idea).