- I'm polyamorous (if you don't know what that means just ask!!) and while for some reason I can't get my profile above to say "Seeing Someone" like I've asked it to, I am in a relationship and living with the lovely tabithamarie16 who I'm quite amorous for.
- I'm kinky. Bondage, spanking, dominance, and so on...if you'd like to know specifics just ask.
- I don't play games, if I want something or feel a certain way, I'll say so and won't let someone wonder; mind games are never enjoyable...well except when it involves point 2 above sex/kink head games during play are a lot of fun :)
I'm involved in both the Vancouver and Seattle poly and BDSM communities and am open to anyone who wants to hear about it. In Vancouver I help facilitate a local poly group, Vancouver Poly 101, we run monthly discussions and if you're interested in attending or hearing more, drop a message.
Poly and kink can go together but can also be separate; neither have to involve sex, but both can. Of course that depends on your definition of sex. For me, it's the level of intimacy that's created from both. I relish that intimacy in whatever fashion it may come.
If you send me a message, please have something more interesting to say than, "How are you doing?" or "I find you interesting." Much obliged.