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BKLadySam

28 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:20am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm Sam, I live in Brooklyn, and I'm looking for a partner in crime. I'd like to find someone to get serious with. But also, like, no pressure, you know? If we click then we click and let's have fun with it. If we don't, let's not waste our time. I feel like that's fair.

I'm really into entertainment/pop culture - especially music and television - we live in a golden age of TV, am I right?? I'm also really into not taking life too seriously - a good sense of humor is a must. I try to make light of almost everything. Not to say I don't get serious or emotional at times but mostly I'd rather be laughing. I really want to do more exploring in New York and especially in Brooklyn.

I love brunch, yoga, going to see live music, and spending time outside when the weather is nice. I recently did my first half marathon so I guess I'm a "runner" now too. I also sometimes like to play guitar and sing songs (not always at the same time). I'm kind of a social chameleon. When I leave my house, I like to be fully prepared for any direction that my day might take me.

I'm a "guy's girl" - meaning most of my close friends are dudes, I get along super well with men, and I like to try to run with the pack. If this weirds you out, then you probably won't get me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a trademark and copyright lawyer at a small firm in Midtown. Ultimately I'd like to work in the media and entertainment industry. I like to be around creative people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Yoga, grammar, being empathetic. Finding humor and silver linings in shitty situations. I'm a really good listener (but if I'm drinking I might forget some of what I was listening to). I'm a pretty good cook, though I don't do it as much as I used to. I'm really good at giving advice to other people, but somehow can never seem to figure out the right answers to my own problems. I'm getting better at going with the flow.

I'm not so good at making decisions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lately I've been getting a lot of comments from random strangers about having beautiful eyes. So I'm gonna go with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I seriously can't pick favorites because I love everything. Below is a sort of stream of consciousness of my love for pop culture.

I get pretty obsessed with any book I'm reading (kinda goes for TV shows too). I will read pretty much anything but I really love fiction, and especially fantasy/sci-fi and historical fiction. But I think a lot of contemporary stuff is great too. I recently read Infinite Jest and am pretty sure that David Foster Wallace is the most talented artist of all time.

I watch a LOT of TV and I definitely get pretty bingey on whatever's hot at the moment but a few of my top favorites are Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, etc. There are many shows that are on my list to watch soon. I strongly dislike: Two and a Half Men (obviously), That 70s Show, and The Big Bang Theory. Also not really into reality tv or sports.

I don't think I can choose a favorite movie. I like so many. I like movies that evoke an emotional reaction. I do not like being scared or grossed out; I do like to laugh and cry. I guess I like "indie" movies a lot. The most recent movie I saw was "The One I Love" starring Mark Duplass and Elisabeth Moss, at the Rooftop Films series in Industry City. It was awesome.

I'm into almost all kinds of music but especially indie/alt rock and folk rock. Some recent favorites include Bon Iver, the Lumineers, Local Natives, the Arcade Fire, etc... The Shins didn't change my life, but the Garden State soundtrack did. And I love being introduced to new music. Lately I'm into more poppy electronic-ish stuff (St. Lucia, Cults, Lucius, The Naked & Famous). Blood Orange is cool, I like to run to Disclosure, and I'll never stop loving Jack White. I'll listen to anything at least once.

I love food! All of it. Let's eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, the internet. Other humans (ones I like, preferably), mascara, and cute shoes. Maybe a blanket or a sweater. Also probably underwear. A toothbrush? Alternatively, Orbit gum would do just fine.

I think this question is a little silly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my next tattoo will be, and whether I should exercise or binge watch tv tonight
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
happy that it's Friday. Otherwise, it varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was about 12, my two best friends and I used to choreograph and perform dances to pop songs. Our premiere was a dance to Britney's "Hit Me Baby One More Time" at a bat mitzvah; we also later did one to N'Sync's "Bye Bye Bye" at a school fashion show. I don't actually find this to be THAT embarrassing. No shame.

Also, I like Mumford & Sons and I don't care if that's not "cool" anymore. I like Coldplay too. So there.
You should message me if
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You are kind of a nerd; if you love food (especially brunch); if you have an inappropriate sense of humor; and if you can challenge me and teach me new things. And it would be nice if you were a thoughtful, caring, non-flaky person, looking for a relationship that could become serious.

Ideally, you should live in Brooklyn or lower Manhattan.