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29 Zeeland, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–29
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:41am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I’m currently dating OtterlyAdorkable. We are looking for an awesome girl for a polyfidelitious triad (three people in a closed relationship with each other). We really want someone who fits with us emotionally, physically, spiritually, and intellectually, not a casual sort of thing. This is new territory for us so we are looking to take it slow and if it doesn’t work out, we like friends too :).

In the summer I do a lot of boating, running, and reading. I also like to do indoorsy things: bowling, poker, playing video games, board games that take a long time to play, writing poetry, and watching sports (football and soccer are my favorites) are some good examples. I am always open to trying something new. I also have some quirky little interests and hobbies. I really like internet comics, catapults, learning languages, and introducing people to new music that they like by making mixes.

I am loyal to a fault. I am quietly intense. I don't smile constantly, but I smile big when I do. I am a thinker; I love big ideas and intelligent conversation, but most of all I love people.

My faith and spirituality are important to me as well. I'm a pretty open-minded and thoughtful Christian. At least that's how I try to be.

I enjoy reading stuff in its original language. Especially ancient stuff. I've taken some Ancient Hebrew and Aramaic (Syriac, too, but I'm sure that I've forgotten all of that). I'm also slowly working on German when I have time.

I am intelligent, thoughtful, and empathic
I’m really good at
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Listening, grilling, reading, removing slivers, thinking, giving back rubs
The first things people usually notice about me
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How I look and that I'm somewhat reserved at first in groups.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I couldn't even begin to list books, so I'll just list some of my favorite authors: Dostoyevsky, Frank Herbert, Frederick Buechner, J.R.R. Tolkien, Paulo Coelho, Dan Sperber, Thich Nhat Hanh, N.T. Wright, Peter De Vries, and Rumi.

TV Shows: Firefly, Durham County, Curb Your Enthusiasm, JAG, Family Guy, The Red Green Show, Battlestar Galactica

Movies: Life is Beautiful (my favorite), Serenity, The Matrix, Fight Club, Monty Python, Thelma and Louise, Anchorman, Alien, Lord of the Rings, Dark Knight, Platoon, I Heart Huckabees, No Country for Old Men

Music: Thrice, Imogen Heap, Miley Cyrus, Bob Marley, Tool, Taylor Swift, Iron and Wine, Matisyahu, Metallica, Tchaikovsky, DJ Sasha, Coheed and Cambria, Rihanna, Röyksopp, Shakira, Agalloch

Food: Not at all picky, I like the typical bad for you kind of foods

Video Games: Starcraft 2 and Galactic Civilizations 2 at the moment
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good workout
People that I love and that love me
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human mind
The way things and people interconnect
Philosophical assumptions
Historical understandings of religion
You should message me if
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you want to have a thoughtful conversation, if you want someone to listen, if something about my profile sounds interesting, if you're bored, go for it.