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52 Tucson, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 9:50am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a very young 52. Very very.

I'm an on-again/off-again OKCupider. I guess I'm back on for now, so blahblahblahpickmepickmeblahblah ;)

I'm mostly a free-spirited urbanite, but I'm set up for backpacking or a serious truck expedition. I live and think like an artist. I'm kind of edgy and quirky, but under the radar. I'm not waving a freak flag, but I'm pretty far outside the lines. I'm positive, mostly, and a bit of a party animal. I've seen a lot of the world, and I'll never stop seeing more.

I've been a journalist for 20+ years (freelance writing and photography lately), but I'm branching out to creative non-fiction and recently wrote a screenplay (extra points if you know a man with a big cigar). I'm a natural communicator and storyteller and lifelong learner/explorer. I volunteer sometimes.

I'm very physically aware. I was an Army medic for six years (behavioral science) and took 2009-10 off to study exercise science. Working out is important to me, but I'm no fanatic. I spend time on spirituality. I smoke pot daily, and I've worked in the (legal) cannabis industry quite a bit. I'm a jeans and T-shirt guy, mostly, but I know how to look sharp as needed. I'm good conversation at the company Christmas party, but I'm practically a Socialist. I might piss off your boss (or especially his boss's boss) with my Utopian social and economic dreams. So be it. I'm nice about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Steve the dog.
Figuring out what the fuck is up with that.
Being positive.
Not having things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being amazed.
Thanking (see What I'm Doing With My Life above).
Finding the best bike routes.
Spelling 📝
Talking too loud
Not having things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My paisley shirt. The hug they are getting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't really have favorites, but I like ... learning, running, laughing, rabble rousing, hiking, golf, working out, hanging out, stopping by, listening to things. Drinks. Sky. Water. Sun. Dirt. Rocks. Plants. Bugs. Backpacks bigger than 50 liters. Vitality. Funding mechanisms for municipal governments, laughs, making sure people know they have unrealized potential, being positive, oddities, firsts, lasts and onlys, cussing‼️

I also like ... Voltaire; Mark Twain; Viktor Frankl; lamas; non-fiction; biographies of evil politicians; bikes for transportation; semi-Buddhist musings; old blues, old country, old bluegrass, new indie/alt rock, punk rock, hip-hop and DISCO, BITCH! I play some harmonica and guitar 🎵
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Positivity
- Gratitude
- Humor
- People
- New experiences
- Motion (sometimes very, very, highly illegally fast)
- Outdoors
- Music
- Cheating on lists, because it's one of my many ways of jamming a stick in The Man's eye😐
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being involved in life, doing the right thing, giving away stuff and/or knowledge and/or time. My two grown kids👔👗Dependent origination. Sex 😈 Sex again 😈💭
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Um, out on a date? With friends? Making soup? Writing this Bradifesto📘?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm admitting two things:

1. Spasmodic dysphonia sometimes makes me sound nervous when I'm not. It's a much milder case of the vocal cord thing Diane Rehm from NPR has. A friend of mine was like, "Oh!! The Diane Rehm thing! Cool!!" I wouldn't say it's cool, but it's no big deal mostly, and I have it ;)

2. In February 2011, I shot about 200 pictures of myself chopping firewood naked at about three frames per second, then compiled them into a short video set to Brad's "Bad For The Soul." There is nothing sexual about it in any way. It's just a really weird performance art piece?
You should message me if
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You are:

Adventurous again
Sexy 💋
Smart again
Sexy again
- and/or -
Smart for a third time.

I would love to find a girlfriend who has traveled and wants more. Please don't take yourself too seriously, because I won't ;) I'm attracted to people who are amazed a lot, grateful and try hard not to be fake. It would help if you have a cynical sense of humor. Are you a fit, caring partner in crime, maybe even just for a crime spree? You should probably be a little rough around the edges (please see peeing anywhere below). Someone who is mostly honest and open and humble would get my attention. Do you fuck like a wild animal? How do you feel about starving artists? Dive bar bloody Marys, anyone? Ever think about selling everything you own and moving to South America? Do you love your tent and sleeping bag as if they were pets? Can you pee anywhere?