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51 M Tucson, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a very young 51. Very very. And I'm a Brad.

I moved back to Tucson in July after almost a year away - Bisbee then Phoenix - and I'm glad to be back ;) I'm about 50/50 outdoorsy/urban, but I lean a little urban. I'm athletic and artistic (I live and think and breathe like an artist). I'm kind of edgy and quirky, although it's subtle. Usually only people who know me know I'm kind of weird. I'm positive, mostly. But if you cut me off in traffic, I'll call you a fucktard out loud, then think "Nah, probably not a fucktard. She's probably just in a hurry." I'm a bit of a loner party animal whose social circle is more like overlapping data circles. I've traveled a lot - dozens of countries and almost all the states - and lived on three continents. I'm not done yet.

I have never seen Breaking Bad or Weeds or Orange is the New Black. I don't have a TV, although I'm not against movies (I wrote one recently). I've been a journalist for 20+ years, lately national news across Arizona and some local downtowny stuff. I'm a natural communicator and storyteller. I'm a lifelong learner and explorer (thank you, learner-explorer parents).

I'm very physically aware. I was an Army medic for six years and took 2009-10 off to study exercise science. I work out - mostly endurance sports. I smoke pot *gasp* I have a medical card, although it's not the only reason I smoke, and I'm not waving a 4:20 flag. I'm not a stoner, by most definitions. I'm a jeans and T-shirt guy, mostly, but I know how to look sharp as needed. I'm good conversation at the company Christmas party.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out what the fuck is up with that.
Being positive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Impermanence (the Buddhist kind)
Being amazed.
Thanking (see What I'm Doing With My Life above).
Finding the best bike routes.
Spelling 📝
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My paisley shirt.

The hug they are getting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't really have favorites, but I like ... learning, running, cycling, laughing, rabble rousing, hiking, golf, photography, kickin' it, hanging out, stopping by, listening to things. Sky. Water. Sun. Dirt. Rocks. Plants. Bugs. Backpacks bigger than 50 liters. Vitality. Funding mechanisms for municipal governments, laughs, making sure people know they have unrealized potential, being positive, oddities, firsts, lasts and onlys, cussing‼️

I also like ... non-fiction; biographies of evil politicians; über-modern carbon-fiber road bikes; semi-Buddhist musings; old blues, old country, old bluegrass, new indie/alt rock, punk rock, hip-hop and DISCO, BITCH! I play some harmonica and guitar 🎵
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Positivity
- Gratitude
- Humor
- People
- New experiences
- Motion (sometimes very, very, highly illegally fast)
- Outdoors
- Music
- Cheating on lists, because it's one of my many ways of jamming a stick in The Man's eye😐
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being involved in life, doing the right thing, giving away stuff and/or knowledge and/or time. My two grown kids👔👗Dependent origination. Sex 😈 Sex again 😈💭
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Um, out on a date? With friends? Making soup? Writing this Bradifesto📘?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm admitting two things:

1. Spasmodic dysphonia sometimes makes me sound nervous when I'm not. Think Diane Rehm, but nowhere near that bad. It's a completely inconsequential vocal cord thing. Most people don't even notice, except for a speech pathologist I met once.

2. In February 2011, I shot about 200 pictures of myself chopping firewood naked at about three frames per second, then compiled them into a short video set to Brad's "Bad For The Soul." It started as something entirely unrelated and innocent, and I still don't know how it evolved into that. There is nothing sexual about it in any way. It's just a really weird performance art piece?
You should message me if
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You are:

Adventurous again
Sexy 💋
Smart again
Sexy again
- and/or -
Smart for a third time.

I would love to find a girlfriend who has traveled and wants more. Please don't take yourself too seriously, because I won't ;) I'm attracted to people who are amazed every day, grateful and try hard not to be fake, but have a cynical sense of humor. I need a fit, caring partner in crime who is up to the task of exploring the world, even if it's just a new bike path ;) You should probably be a little rough around the edges and hard as rocks, and by that I don't mean uncaring (please see peeing anywhere below). Someone who is mostly honest and open and humble would get my attention. Do you fuck like a wild animal? Dive bar bloody Marys, anyone? Ever think about selling everything you own and moving to South America? Do you love your tent and sleeping bag as if they were pets? Can you pee anywhere?

So. You game? hehe.

PS - If you like me on Quickmatch, send me a note. I can't see you ;)