You don't have to read my whole profile and think of a clever message to reach out (but you should read this section at least). If you get a sense we'll hit it off in some way, send me a message. I talk to strangers on public transit—you don't scare me!
I find meeting and connecting with strangers to be one of life's greatest pleasures. I use this site to meet people I wouldn't otherwise. I love technology when it's used to enhance human connections—not to replace them. I don't want an Internet penpal, I want to connect with you. If you message me and I like you, I'll probably just reply with my phone number and hope that you'll use it to meet me.
A very near-death experience left me with a deep appreciation for how incredible and important life is. I do my best to live boldly and precisely—taking risks, facing and thriving in uncertainty, turning failure into success. I do not want to take a single moment of life for granted.
I am deeply spiritual and continue to develop my own practice from integrating many different sources; primarily buddhism, yogic science, and stoicism.
I have been happily and emphatically non-monogamous (aka polyamorous) for seven years, and it has been an endless fountain that keeps on giving, both in joy and in challenge.
I am both primal and cultured. I am just as natural in a sloppy carnal sex romp as I am in a classy-dress upscale event. I am unquestionably masculine and I prefer my women feminine. I especially love strong, independent women who have their own active life to cross paths with mine. I love kink as much as I love vanilla.
While I've been told that I sound high energy or intimidating in text, I am deeply grounded in person, and often hear that I am a calming presence in the room. Even shy people find me safe and easily approachable, and tell me so often.