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33 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
If you're one of the typical flakey and unreliable Bay Area citizens, please close this window now. You are the sworn enemy of everything that is good.

I appreciate when women message me first. You don't have to read my whole profile and think of a clever message to reach out. If you get a sense we'll hit it off in some way, reach out. I talk to strangers on public transit—you don't scare me!

I find meeting and connecting with strangers to be one of life's greatest pleasures. I use this site to meet people I wouldn't otherwise. I love technology when it's used to enhance human connections—not to replace them. I don't want an Internet penpal, I want to connect with you. If you message me and I like you, I'll probably just reply with my phone number and expect you to use it.

A very near-death experience left me with a deep appreciation for how incredible and important life is. I live boldly and precisely, I run toward danger, take risks, I fail hard and fast and as often as possible and don't let it keep me from success. I try not to take a single moment of life for granted. While I've been told I sound high energy in text, I am deeply grounded and often hear that I am the calming presence of the room.

I am both primal and cultured. I am just as natural in a sloppy carnal sex romp as I am in a classy-dress upscale event. I am unquestionably manly and masculine and I prefer my women womanly and feminine. I love strong, independent women who love the power struggle of dominance.

I am highly evolved and balanced in the four cornerstones of humanity, can be very kinky (although I like vanilla things too, stop overthinking this!), and am a burner. I have been happily and emphatically polyamorous for six years, and it has been an endless fountain of joy that keeps on giving.
What I’m doing with my life
Turning my 16 year career around and teaching it to others. Helping manifest Camp Grounded, the amazing summer camp for adults. Building giant tech art pieces for Burning Man and Coachella. Running with the intention of doing an ultra marathon (this is a new one).

My life's work is to constantly thrive in every moment by being the best possible human being I can, and every action I take and every activity I do feeds back into that. I try to make everything I do have a positive impact on the world, no matter how small. Every job I have facilitates that.
I’m really good at
Attracting the people that matter and repelling the ones that don't. Convincing people to do things they're scared of and thank me for after. Making people feel loved and special. Being manly in all of the best possible ways without any of the crappy ones. Extraordinary empathy. Being comfortable and building rapports quickly. Mind-blowing sex. Fulfilling fantasies. Saying "yes" when asked if I want to try or do something new (but I'm usually the one doing the asking...)
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people notice about me is my name because everyone yells it when I come into a room. The second thing everyone notices about me is my radiant smile which never stops (sometimes even when I'm supposed to be serious).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love the experience of sharing wonderful things, so I find these conversations so much more exciting when you're sitting next to a computer with Netflix, or with your iPod out, or while we're standing next to a bookshelf at a library. Let's not spoil that awesome moment by knowing it all in advance.
The six things I could never do without
Earplugs, dental floss, condoms, clothing, a music player, and a backpack to put it all in. I gave away everything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That a lifetime is the longest period of time you will ever experience; the application of quantum mechanics to daily science and spirituality; evolving personal growth; how to avoid the "second death" (Calhoun) of the human race; the rapidly evolving sex and dating behaviors of the post-industrial and post-feminist era. You know, the little things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I often do random playful activities with strangers, like convincing them to cartwheel with me and roll down hills or sing songs or share their ice cream. I secretly hope that one day a random stranger will challenge me to something fun, especially if they were inspired by someone I inspired.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't have to sit and think of something clever or witty to say about my profile, I don't even care if you read it. If you feel like we will vibe (even just as friends), send me a message! Especially if you think I'm hot. That's a bonus.