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50 Schaumburg, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:09am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English, French (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quietly confident Brit. Masculine, witty and well mannered seeks intelligent, attractive lady with a sense of humor and an open mind.

Lighthearted, engaging, cerebral and an independent thinker. I enjoy winter walks and lots of summer bike riding - I live a somewhat healthy lifestyle but by no means obsessive. I am accomplished in the kitchen - sauces a speciality and a few signature bakes.

Self-employed with an eCommerce business. I live in Schaumburg for the sake of my teenage boys' schooling but am not of the suburban mindset.

Grew up in the UK and emigrated to the US 16 years ago.

While exchanging message may provide subtile clues to one's intellect, I am not a fan of prolonged text-based conversation. It is no indicator of chemistry. I prefer to migrate to a chat on the phone and possibly meeting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking deep breaths at moments with my teenagers. Growing my business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, humor, cooking, photography, using my hands. Questioning the reported word.

In my work: Marketing - negotiating - selling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
From Christopher Hitchens to Bill Bryson. Movies from "Brief Encounter" to "A Clockwork Orange". David Lynch and Stanley Kubrick.

NPR listener and supporter, mostly watch British TV content, satirical comedy and binge-viewing drama series'. I watch little American TV aside from the occasional (normally HBO) TV mega drama, the usual Wire, Sopranos and Breaking Bad staples.

Music: Broad tastes - anything that is good from the Sex Pistols, The Stranglers and Two Tone to Beethoven's 9th and Bach's (genius) Prelude No.1 in C Major and much in between.

Most ethnic foods and classical French - Indian is a favorite but anything simple, fresh, well-conceived and well-prepared can be a treat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dijon mustard and "Better than Bouillon" chicken stock.
My kids are a given.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women who look great in their jeans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no "typical" Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am open to any question you like on a one to one basis.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. consider yourself smart, funny and compassionate. are in proportion, slim, fit or athletic or taking steps to be.
...your photos accurately depict you. like what you see and want to know more.

I'm probably not a good match if you are overly materialistic or fly sports regalia from your vehicle, identify heavily with a sports team or have, "Go-Bears" or similar statement in your profile. Playing a sport by contrast is commendable.

For ladies in the city travelling to the north, northwest and west side are not an issue for me.

If you have honestly read this far you are compelled to message me!