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31 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I just moved to Oakland from Los Angeles for work.

I'm looking forward to meeting all the people that my friends in LA told me about, who love it here, and whom I have to meet, and they'll set me up with after I move to Oakland.

I am more original than my username suggests. And no, it's not just my initials and the year I was born.

I'm on The Cupe because when I go out, I go out to relax, have a drink, hear music, and be with friends. I don't enjoy meeting women in bars or clubs. Probably because the girl I want to meet is at home in comfy socks watching a good movie. Also, this way, I get to filter out the religious.
What I’m doing with my life
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I start a lot of projects and will eventually finish most of them. I find new music. I read old books. I've been working on a huge wood-burned map of Westeros for a couple years. It will never be done.

I am lucky to have gotten a job for a great company, and decided on a whim to accept it, and start over in a new city. Getting dropped in a new place is a great way to reconnect with yourself, and to reconnect with connecting with people. I recommend it to anyone.

I read or heard or saw something that was saying that your inner-monologue is just your brain telling a story. It's a fictional narrative of your life and you just warp your perception to fit the plot-line. Moving to a place and starting over is a great way to create a new chapter.

I like to do many of the things that people like to do. Bike, hike, play tennis, go camping, see and experience music and events and large gatherings of peaceful people, play Halo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The Irish goodbye.


I'm nearly good enough at the harmonica to fool people into thinking that I play the harmonica.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tell me my neutral face looks angry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I consume music like Fig Newtons. And I consume Fig Newtons like this guy -

Recently played: Cloud Cult, Alt-J, Angus and Julia Stone, Dry the River, Frightened Rabbit, Lake Street Dive, The Front Bottoms, Typhoon, Three Blind Wolves, J. Roddy Walston and the Business, Hozier, Jonathan Coulton, The Long Winters, The Milk Carton Kids, Raphael Saadiq, Van Morrison, The Decemberists, The Dirty Projectors, Mayer Hawthorne, Elvis Costello, and Heart.

I read.

Roseanne is one of my favorite sitcoms. Excluding that last season where they win the lottery but then it's all a dream.

Joss Whedon. Edgar Wright.

I love solo movies at the theater post 11PM.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The 6 things I could never do without.

The Singularity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use the Oxford comma.

I like to sleep in large piles of clean laundry.

My username really is my initials and the year I was born. But at least it doesn't end in "-asaurus".

I don't really eat that many Fig Newtons... anymore.
You should message me if
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You are easy going. You don't carry stress around and burden others with it. You are not easily offended. You do not easily offend. You like your space. You allow others to have theirs. You like outer-space. You spend a lot of time on reddit. You chew with your mouth closed. You don't have a driving selfie. You are a member of KCRW or KPCC. EDIT: I guess i gotta sign up for KQED.