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31 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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New to Oakland by way of Los Angeles, Connecticut, Pennsylvania and Tennessee.

I'm on The Cupe because when I go out, I go out to relax, have a drink, hear music, and be with friends. I don't enjoy meeting women in bars or clubs. Probably because the girl I want to meet is at home in comfy socks watching a good movie. Also, this way, I get to filter out the religious.
What I’m doing with my life
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I start a lot of projects and will eventually finish most of them. I find new music. I read old books. I've been working on a huge, wood-burned map of Westeros for years. It will never be done.

I am lucky to have gotten a job for a great company, decided to accept it, and start over in a new city. Getting dropped in a new place is a great way to reconnect with yourself, and to reconnect with connecting with people. I recommend it to anyone.

I like to do many of the things that people like to do. Bike, hike, play tennis, go camping, see and experience music and events and large gatherings of peaceful people. And play Halo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The Irish goodbye.


I'm nearly good enough at the harmonica to fool people into thinking that I play the harmonica.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tell me my neutral face looks angry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I consume music like Fig Newtons. And I consume Fig Newtons like this guy -

What I've been listening to recently: Bahamas, Hozier, Angus and Julia Stone, Dry the River, Frightened Rabbit, Lake Street Dive, The Front Bottoms, Typhoon, Three Blind Wolves, J. Roddy Walston and the Business, Jonathan Coulton, Alt-J, The Long Winters, The Milk Carton Kids, Raphael Saadiq, Van Morrison, The Decemberists, The Dirty Projectors, Mayer Hawthorne, Elvis Costello, and Heart.

I read.

Roseanne is one of my favorite sitcoms. Excluding that last season where they win the lottery but then it's all a dream.

Joss Whedon. Edgar Wright.

I love soloing movies at the theater, post 11PM.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The 6 things I could never do without.

The Singularity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use the Oxford comma. All the time.

I like to sleep in large piles of clean laundry.
You should message me if
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You are easy-going. You don't carry stress around and burden others with it. You are not easily offended. You do not easily offend. You like your space. You allow others to have theirs. You like outer-space. You chew with your mouth closed. You don't mind a lot of Public Radio.