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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:31pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Other but it’s not important
High school
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You can think whatever you want about my profile looking negative & I don't care because that's how my experiences (or lack thereof) with "love" has been. It can't be positive when it's non-existent & there doesn't seem to be any light at the end of that tunnel! I am the overlooked one that will always be on the outside looking in until someone gives me a chance, which doesn't look like it will happen anytime soon...

I'm just browsing profiles because I know I'm not going to ever find a woman or meet a girlfriend on here. I'm not going reach out to anyone with a message because they always go unanswered no matter what I write, so why bother. I know this should be my self-summary but, I don't think any women really care if I'm a nice, sweet & caring gentleman. I get tired of being all sweet & nice when women don't take it to heart & they overlook me anyways. Quite frankly I have almost completely given up on finding "love", my love luck is horrendous & I don't really see it changing through here. I do want to find a woman that will be addicted to me & vice versa or at the very least, a woman that will feel bad for my bad luck plight & would like to change that instead of messaging me to criticize my that will make me want to be more positive how? I want some woman to say "you're a handsome guy, you a deserve a chance!" instead of "you need to be more positive"... Hello! My love confidence is down! Ladies help me get that back up!

I prefer a woman that doesn't smoke or drink & doesn't do any drugs either, I don't do any of that stuff so why would I want to bring those elements into my life? Also I would prefer a woman that doesn't have any kids unless we've already known each other for at least a year. I don't want to be involved with someone romantically that has baby daddy/ ex-boyfriend or ex-husband problems that involve custody issues, I can do without that. Even if things are "cool" between you & your ex, that doesn't make it any less awkward for me & I rather be with someone I can possibly start a family with than someone that has that through someone else already.....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring it out.... I recently started a new job working at a distribution center for a telecommunications company doing order picking, packing & shipping. It's a new beginning for me & a change of pace from my jobs of the past. Also it's been a year & a half since my last job laid me off on account of them going out of business & closing down. My next step is to build this new beginning into a career & get my own place hopefully early next year....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at having chemistry with women I can never have because they have boyfriends, they have kids with a boyfriend, they're engaged or already married... that has ALWAYS been my luck.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well in the world of online dating, women seem to notice me as some gullible mark to try & scam me, they try to use my sweetness & niceness to their advantage. In the real life world, most women in the Reading area around me don't seem to notice me because most of them are spoken for in some way, shape or form, or they fall for guys that don't treat them right & that's all they're attracted to because they don't know any better.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This part is what you message to others on here to get to know someone, therefore filling this out is stupid....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can never do without my MP3 player, my job, my car, having my own dog, my family & a beating heart
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home relaxing....?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm cursed, I haven't had an actual girlfriend EVER! That's how bad my luck with women is!
You should message me if
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Since the ONLY way my profile gets viewed at all on here is if I view someone else's first, that means no one is attracted to my profile on their own & since I'm just browsing on here, I have ZERO expectations that anyone will message me other than to criticize me or (in their minds) help me write a better profile like I want help from someone I don't know & doesn't know anything about me...