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34 M Santa Monica, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:17pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Originally from the midwest, been here a while, and now can’t imagine life without the SoCal climate and culture.

I can be somewhat shy at first, but can’t seem to shut up around those I’m comfortable with. I appreciate dry wit and can find humor in things I probably shouldn't. I generally operate with karma in mind.

I love biking by the ocean listening to music. I have taken notes while watching TED Talks. I enjoy the night life, but I reserve a special fondness for my couch with a good book or DVR. I watch survival shows on the chance it will come in handy. I’ve seen much of the U.S. but need to catch up internationally. I'm not too cool to care about things and be vulnerable. I love puppies damn it! Even though I’m very happy with my career, I still fantasize about making a living with music or design, but am aware that I will likely peak with etsy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Bringing sexy back to the world of organizational development. I work for a school district and love my job. Generally trying to finally find the perfect work/life balance and take advantage of the area I live in; biking, beaching, exploring, art opening, bar hopping, yogging, museuming, concerting, and so on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping it light while getting real, finding creative solutions to problems, listening, learning, appreciating good design, cursive, inventing awful band names, shiatsu massage, tetris, HORSE, guitar, volleyball, skiing, peeling eggs, shortcuts, writing music, enjoying sport
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall. Glowing halo hovering overhead (stop staring people!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like biographies, art books, text books, quasi-spiritual metaphysical mumbo jumbo, science/how to/how come (nerd stuff)

Movies: Love them movies. Favs include Shawshank Redemption, Anchorman, Kubrik, Coen bros, Wes Anderson, Scorsese, Woody Allen, Chris Nolan, documentaries, random netflix stuff

TV: Breaking Bad (why not?), pretty much any of the HBO shows (not technically TV), Parks and Rec, Daily Show, Colbert, Mad Men, Sons of Anarchy, New Girl, Modern Family, Key & Peele, Workaholics, SNL, Portlandia, Nova

Music: too many. favs are Radiohead, Atoms for Peace, Ryan Adams, Zeppelin, John Lennon, Wilco, Slowdive, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, The Doors, Daft Punk, Interpol, Outcast, Arcade Fire, St. Vincent, and so on

People: Larry David, Nikola Tesla, Will Ferrell, Teddy Roosevelt, Jon Stewart, Louis CK, Jimmy Fallon, Matt Taibbi, Paramahansa Yogananda, Ben Franklin, Hawking, Dawkins, Elon Musk, Gore Vidal, Bill Moyers, Bill Mahr, Rachel Maddow, Joan Rivers, Ron Swanson, Ricky Gervais, Kenny Powers, Captain Picard

Food: I like it
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Favorite guitar
Nature, a la Goulet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The forest through the trees.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with friends, relaxing at home, or vigilante work I really can't get into here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Bravo tv
You should message me if
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You're smart, sweet, sarcastic, and think we'd vibe.